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[Only Special To God]

IMO I don't miss the ads. I think that the forum looks better without them. I am not begrudging people in wanting to find someone to love. But, I really didn't care for them. The pictures of the women and or men looking for love (ie. the perfect couple)......do you really think that they look like that in real person? I think not, as I have met a lot of people in my life. And the one's that said, Meet a Catholic in your area, and the woman was looking like a Sex Kitten. I do believe that I am in a Christian forum, to me that would be like having sex on the alter in church....NO THANK YOU! I have enough problems to deal with that I don't need that sin hanging over my head.

Besides I found them distracting me from my thoughts and finding the words that I want to use when replying to a topic of discussion. Rates right up there with a relentless barking dog and a screaming child.

Thank you for listening to me.
God Bless
Ian

Oh, and I really do like the change Brian, maybe that is really what all the fuss is about. People seldom like change, when change is really good for them.

[Quahom1]

Originally Posted by Only Special To God

...I am not begrudging people in wanting to find someone to love. But, I really didn't care for them. The pictures of the women and or men looking for love (ie. the perfect couple)......do you really think that they look like that in real person? I think not, as I have met a lot of people in my life. And the one's that said, Meet a Catholic in your area, and the woman was looking like a Sex Kitten. I do believe that I am in a Christian forum, to me that would be like having sex on the alter in church....

That would be an excellent topic in the christian forum...

[Only Special To God]

Quote:
Originally Posted by Only Special To God
...I am not begrudging people in wanting to find someone to love. But, I really didn't care for them. The pictures of the women and or men looking for love (ie. the perfect couple)......do you really think that they look like that in real person? I think not, as I have met a lot of people in my life. And the one's that said, Meet a Catholic in your area, and the woman was looking like a Sex Kitten. I do believe that I am in a Christian forum, to me that would be like having sex on the alter in church....

Originally Posted by Quahom1

That would be an excellent topic in the christian forum...

Be my guest Q! Only the Lord knows where it will take you, but I do know that it will be a topic that I will not participate in! IMO There are somethings that are truly wrong and that would be one of them!

So, if your feeling game Q take the leap, as I will not be following you, but I am sure that you will have company from what I have read here at the forum.

IMO a Shepherd (a leader) is to lead his flock (the followers) in the right direction that is for their health and benefit (their good), not into morning traffic on a major expressway (demented sense of thinking).

But please do be my guest and have at it, my brother. I hope and pray that it may it bring you all of the thoughts and opinions that your mind so desires to read about. Isn't there a different forum for that or has the IO deteriorated that much within the last 24 hours. And if it has declined that greatly, in that amount of time, then I have made a mistake in coming here.

God Bless
Ian

[Quahom1]

Originally Posted by Only Special To God

Quote:
Originally Posted by Only Special To God
...I am not begrudging people in wanting to find someone to love. But, I really didn't care for them. The pictures of the women and or men looking for love (ie. the perfect couple)......do you really think that they look like that in real person? I think not, as I have met a lot of people in my life. And the one's that said, Meet a Catholic in your area, and the woman was looking like a Sex Kitten. I do believe that I am in a Christian forum, to me that would be like having sex on the alter in church....


Be my guest Q! Only the Lord knows where it will take you, but I do know that it will be a topic that I will not participate in! IMO There are somethings that are truly wrong and that would be one of them!

So, if your feeling game Q take the leap, as I will not be following you, but I am sure that you will have company from what I have read here at the forum.

IMO a Shepherd (a leader) is to lead his flock (the followers) in the right direction that is for their health and benefit (their good), not into morning traffic on a major expressway (demented sense of thinking).

But please do be my guest and have at it, my brother. I hope and pray that it may it bring you all of the thoughts and opinions that your mind so desires to read about. Isn't there a different forum for that or has the IO deteriorated that much within the last 24 hours. And if it has declined that greatly, in that amount of time, then I have made a mistake in coming here.

God Bless
Ian

consider it "done".

[Only Special To God]

Originally Posted by Quahom1

consider it "done".

I did have a high opinion of you, but that seems to be diminishing like the sun setting in the evening sky.

I pray that it will bring you the kind of noesis and edification that your life so desires and lacks.

Ian

[Quahom1]

Originally Posted by Only Special To God

I did have a high opinion of you, but that seems to be diminishing like the sun setting in the evening sky.

I pray that it will bring you the kind of noesis and edification that your life so desires and lacks.

Ian

never count the chickes before they're hatched. a swan might be among them...

[Only Special To God]

Originally Posted by Only Special To God

I did have a high opinion of you, but that seems to be diminishing like the sun setting in the evening sky.

I pray that it will bring you the kind of noesis and edification that your life so desires and lacks.

Ian

*extending hand to shake* if you are willing.

Q,
I must apologize to you, as I have misjudged you. I thought........well it doesn't matter what I thought........yes it does matter........You did not clarify as to what you were going to use as a topic.....So, I presumed that it was going to be on something else, and after seeing the subject of your discussion.

I am feeling like a totally @ss hole. Man, I am so sorry……I thought that you had made a wrong turn somewhere. Yes, I jumped to conclusions as you did not specify as to what you were going use.

Sorry brother,
God Bless
Ian

[Only Special To God]

Originally Posted by Quahom1

never count the chickes before they're hatched. a swan might be among them...

lol
Yes, you are correct brother. But, you also must be careful of the ones that you throw away, because that one could have been the goose that lays the golden eggs and enriches your life beyond their wildest dreams!

As, there are times in life that you can't go back to retreive it as someone else has already taken it for their treasure. Aw, the ones that we kick to the curb!

God Bless Brother
Ian

[Quahom1]

Originally Posted by Only Special To God

lol
Yes, you are correct brother. But, you also must be careful of the ones that you throw away, because that one could have been the goose that lays the golden eggs and enriches your life beyond their wildest dreams!

As, there are times in life that you can't go back to retreive it as someone else has already taken it for their treasure. Aw, the ones that we kick to the curb!

God Bless Brother
Ian

indeed, but the question is "who" got put on the curb?

[Only Special To God]

Originally Posted by Quahom1

indeed, but the question is "who" got put on the curb?

In a couple of cases it was me that got kicked to the curb, so in return there was a couple that I had kicked to the curb for no reason other than I was hurt and wanted retribution somehow.

Regrets "YES", did I try to go back "YES", was I too late in one case "YES", and that is the one that I regret the most! Because I couldn't see the forest for the trees, and now it is my loss indeed. I think now because of that I will be forever searching for someone like her as I never did give her a chance. My mistake, and there is no "Ooops, I'm sorry". As I did try to go back, but I hurt her so badly, and she did nothing wrong but love me for me. I did try very hard, I still place a peach colored rose on her vehicle. So, that she will not forget me and maybe one day she will change her mind about me and want me back.

God Bless brother and "Thank You" for listening to me.

Ian

[Quahom1]

Originally Posted by Only Special To God

In a couple of cases it was me that got kicked to the curb, so in return there was a couple that I had kicked to the curb for no reason other than I was hurt and wanted retribution somehow.

Regrets "YES", did I try to go back "YES", was I too late in one case "YES", and that is the one that I regret the most! Because I couldn't see the forest for the trees, and now it is my loss indeed. I think now because of that I will be forever searching for someone like her as I never did give her a chance. My mistake, and there is no "Ooops, I'm sorry". As I did try to go back, but I hurt her so badly, and she did nothing wrong but love me for me. I did try very hard, I still place a peach colored rose on her vehicle. So, that she will not forget me and maybe one day she will change her mind about me and want me back.

God Bless brother and "Thank You" for listening to me.

Ian

Like the title of the thread says, "ads removed". Stop searching. Simply focus on self and God and what God has in store for self. Enjoy each day, let the people that come into your life enrich it, and you in turn do the same. The past is gone. But there is today and tomorrow. One is a promisarry note and the other is cash in hand...use it wisely and have fun, with life, with people, with challenges, with change.

As for me? I'll try not to be so serious and dead pan...lol

[Dondi]

AT first, I actually enjoyed clicking on the ads, just to see where I'd end up. And the ads changed depending on which forum you were in or what topic was discussed. Sometimes, I found myself down some rabbit hole, all in good fun.

Ah, well. It got redundant anyway. Kudos for ridding that distraction.