General feed back on "belief and spirituality"

17th Angel · 08-01-2008, 12:06 AM

I been pondering for long time now... And I wanted to get feedback and advice from others... See what others think.... What would you say or suggest or comment anything on this: (I cant explain myself fully so take what ya can)

A person (me) wants a religion... They want one really bad lol... Not sure why they want it too much... But, they do... But They don't have one... And it seems like they will never have one.... :/ Thoughts?

LeoSalinas22 · 08-01-2008, 12:09 AM

hey alex,

do you by any chance feel like an outcast?

dauer · 08-01-2008, 12:19 AM

Maybe you're just looking for spiritual community? What about an interfaith org in your area?

17th Angel · 08-01-2008, 12:23 AM

Thanks for the replies

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Originally Posted by LeoSalinas22

hey alex,

do you by any chance feel like an outcast?

If we're honest, yes... Although that has been my own doing over the years, I wish to be isolated... I really am not a social creature... I however do try on here... (feel honored... j/k)

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Originally Posted by dauer

Maybe you're just looking for spiritual community? What about an interfaith org in your area?

What would someone gain from being around a spiritual community in your opinion?

dauer · 08-01-2008, 12:26 AM

Alex,

I think it depends largely on the individual, but you don't need to be a member of a religion to be a spiritual individual so to me it seems the main benefit of any religion is going to be the community element. For me, I like being able to share in spiritual practice with other people. Somehow, it feels different than solo practice. Additionally, I like being able to talk to others who at least on the experiential level are in some agreement with me, and at other times debate because we do disagree. I like knowing that, as a festival is coming up, there will be other people sharing in that festival that I can celebrate with, or if it's not a festival, share in whatever the mood of the present season is.

I suggested an interfaith organization because then at the very least you'd be able to be around other people who are most likely spiritual without feeling like you ought to conform to someone else's idea of what form that should take.

-- Dauer

17th Angel · 08-01-2008, 12:39 AM

Thanks again D!

I wouldn't even know where to begin, I guess I could look into finding these groups... Just the only thing I believe in is Love... But when I question my spirituality.... I am not sure If I have any... Sounds crazy, that I would say that yet, I feel drawn to religion.... :/

dauer · 08-01-2008, 12:41 AM

Ever looked into UU? They're pretty laid back about specific types of dogma.

17th Angel · 08-01-2008, 12:48 AM

Doesn't it all seem a bit messed up though? Trying to find a place with like "no holds barred" ?

China Cat Sunflower · 08-01-2008, 12:57 AM

You probably still have one or more JW mind control implants in your body. Look for oddly shaped bumps on your dermis and elsewhere.

Chris

dauer · 08-01-2008, 12:59 AM

Alex,

I don't think so. It's about what you're looking for in a spiritual community if a spiritual community is what you're looking for. What do you think attracts you to religion?

17th Angel · 08-01-2008, 01:24 AM

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Originally Posted by China Cat Sunflower

You probably still have one or more JW mind control implants in your body. Look for oddly shaped bumps on your dermis and elsewhere.

Chris

lol, I'll go through my security scanner one more time!

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Originally Posted by dauer

Alex,

I don't think so. It's about what you're looking for in a spiritual community if a spiritual community is what you're looking for. What do you think attracts you to religion?

Fair enough.... I don't really know... I guess it is the dream that there is more to at the end of the day all the efforts and works and deeds... Are gone, I die.. That's it... Game over... I really am not comfortable with that... There has to be a point to me being here... And from looking into the universe (don't want to side track it, this is just my opinion...) There has to be some kind of "thing" going on here... Some kind of creator, designer... Spiritually speaking I believe I am as spiritual as a lump of coal..... No idea if that will improve or if I can improve that.

I try the praying thing... I think I've prayed to every god under the sun... I am yet to find the one that wants to be my buddy! lol... I have no favour with the others so far :P But then I think well maybe it is because I am not spiritual... And I think it over and how the heck do you become spiritual? Anyway back to it... What draws me to religion is Can so many be wrong? Like sure they all differ here and there, but still... World wide, constant through the history of man, there it is.... Religion. Always...

And the feeling of having some kind of superior guardian being that can wash away our problems and make us eternal.... How can that not attract to religion?

What am I looking for? I have no idea... But I know I'm looking for it...

dauer · 08-01-2008, 01:43 AM

It sounds like some of your attraction to religion has to do with your concerns about your own mortality and your sense that there's got to be something more to the world, some greater structure or purpose or Being. At the same time it sounds like, despite your ventures into religion, you don't feel like you connect spiritually with something greater than yourself. Is that accurate? Is there more to it?

17th Angel · 08-01-2008, 01:50 AM

I just don't 'get' spirituality... How do you know when it is in effect? And how are you meant to like.... Feel/act... lol...

Yes I have concern for my morality. But what majorly pisses me off, is how everyone treats one another... Like dirt.... And how there are people suffering world wide... And hunger and yaddy yaaddy yaa.. You know the stories and facts so I won't rant on and on about it... But, it's simply not fair lol... If we only get one shot at this life... That sucks so bad for so many poor poor people.......

And yes again, I believe there has to be something but, everytime I look into/study/join religions... I don't feel it... I expect there to be something... I have no idea what! But something... And if it comes down to connecting spiritually, then I must be doomed? Because I fail to get that, the only thing I can asume it must be like is the feeling of peace I get when with nature... Something calm? Or what?

I want to be like most of you... Have a faith be so darn sure about it, and have trust and I guess a spiritual connection to it. To me it isn't fitting in where it is easiest... It is fitting in where I am meant to fit in.

dauer · 08-01-2008, 02:09 AM

I can relate to your difficulties understanding spirituality. I can't put it into words very well. For me, those experiences that are regularly described as spiritual, I consider spiritual. I don't think the word describes one state but rather, multiple states that may or may not have something in common. For example, there are ecstatic practices that foster a state that is very different from that reached in contemplative practices. Maybe there is a similarity in becoming overtaken by the experiences in both cases, more present for the experience. Maybe that's the connection. And maybe beyond that there is often a sense of connection in spiritual practices. Then again, there can be a sense of longing too, a sense of distance. It is a hard thing to define clearly.

What do you think it would be like for you to find the place where you're meant to fit in? How do you envision that happening and in what type of setting does that seem most likely to you?

17th Angel · 08-01-2008, 02:17 AM

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Originally Posted by dauer

I can relate to your difficulties understanding spirituality. I can't put it into words very well. For me, those experiences that are regularly described as spiritual, I consider spiritual. I don't think the word describes one state but rather, multiple states that may or may not have something in common. For example, there are ecstatic practices that foster a state that is very different from that reached in contemplative practices. Maybe there is a similarity in becoming overtaken by the experiences in both cases, more present for the experience. Maybe that's the connection. And maybe beyond that there is often a sense of connection in spiritual practices. Then again, there can be a sense of longing too, a sense of distance. It is a hard thing to define clearly.

What do you think it would be like for you to find the place where you're meant to fit in? How do you envision that happening and in what type of setting does that seem most likely to you?

Spirituality is a toughy eh? Suprised to read you have difficulties with it lol.. No idea why, just seem like a fish in water. I really appreciate your posts. Thank you D.

I guess, not just love but true peace... I believe true peace I would find... And a comitment... Once I found it, something inside me to scream here we are! And then I stay true to it... lol. I don't feel that this is ok, but this doesn't make any sense... This doesn't seem right, or I can't believe this or that... I be there Yes this is it, I agree with it all, it all feels right... Change become a better person.. And STICK to it. The setting? No idea.... Being in the right place at the right moment... I feel it will be something I will crash into oblivious.

2am.... I best get to bed... Another day has been born. And more chances/opportunities await!