Your idea of heaven
http://www.interfaith.org/forum/the-...and-15670.html
You're saying it is an illusion (heaven). I agree that heaven can be your perception and state of mind like a dream. I'm a bit confused though, so are you saying reincarnation is all in our heads? If so I'd be happy to believe that because the idea scares me.
I'd like to think of it as, if I want to know life as an elephant "boom" I can experience that if I want in my "illusion". While at the same time a part of who I am, can be experienced in someone else's dream/realm. It's still me which is a part of me!
By the way, do you think babies stay/think like babies in their state of mind upon death?