What Is Your Greatest Fear? - Page 4

Quahom1 · 08-26-2008, 02:23 AM

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Originally Posted by China Cat Sunflower

My greatest fear is that my wife will realize what a sh** I am and divorce me. Of course I won't see it coming. Then my kids will be living with her and some prick that I'll have to pretend to get along with while I live in a hovel and go broke paying child support.

Chris

well then, at least with you being aware, you have a chance to change that...what a blessing for you, maybe several fold...

not that I think of you that way...but what I think doesn't matter.

Only Special To God · 08-26-2008, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by China Cat Sunflower

My greatest fear is that my wife will realize what a sh** I am and divorce me. Of course I won't see it coming. Then my kids will be living with her and some prick that I'll have to pretend to get along with while I live in a hovel and go broke paying child support.

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Originally Posted by Tao_Equus

Got the T-shirt

Hello Chris and Tao,
Everyone has those same kind of fears when they are in a relationship, and they are appreciative and love what they have that they are afraid of someone taking it away from you or loosing it. And yes, you do have the right outcome of the situation down pat. So, my question to you is what are you doing to keep that from happening? And are you really such a sh**?

Thank you both for replying to my post.
God Bless
Ian

Only Special To God · 08-26-2008, 02:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Quahom1

There is a "tiny" problem there Ian. With much given, much is expected...

Are you sure Q, or is that something that we have set before ourselves? I feel that it is really on the simpler side. IMO it is man who has complicated life, not God. It is Man who thinks that they must accomplish this and that to explain what he did with his life. He must get a higher education, he must make more money, he must buy a bigger house so on and so forth. When was the last time that you listen to a bumble bee buzz by? You looked at an ant that was carrying something 10x's it's size, watching a rose bud in the morning covered lightly with dew and as each hour passed you could go back to the same rose and see it opening to the radiant light of the sun. When was the last time that you held a baby in your arms (and it doesn't matter who's baby it is). You look at the creation that you are holding and the amazement and wonder fills your heart, mind and soul at something that is so precious as that little life that you are admiring. That is God's creation it is life and it is that simple to me.

God Bless
Ian

Quahom1 · 08-26-2008, 03:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Only Special To God

Are you sure Q, or is that something that we have set before ourselves? I feel that it is really on the simpler side. IMO it is man who has complicated life, not God. It is Man who thinks that they must accomplish this and that to explain what he did with his life. He must get a higher education, he must make more money, he must buy a bigger house so on and so forth. When was the last time that you listen to a bumble bee buzz by? You looked at an ant that was carrying something 10x's it's size, watching a rose bud in the morning covered lightly with dew and as each hour passed you could go back to the same rose and see it opening to the radiant light of the sun. When was the last time that you held a baby in your arms (and it doesn't matter who's baby it is). You look at the creation that you are holding and the amazement and wonder fills your heart, mind and soul at something that is so precious as that little life that you are admiring. That is God's creation it is life and it is that simple to me.

God Bless
Ian

quite certain Ian: Luke 12:48 says, “To everyone whom much is given, much is expected, and from the one who is entrusted with much, much more will be expected. ...

China Cat Sunflower · 08-26-2008, 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Only Special To God

Hello Chris and Tao,
Everyone has those same kind of fears when they are in a relationship, and they are appreciative and love what they have that they are afraid of someone taking it away from you or loosing it. And yes, you do have the right outcome of the situation down pat. So, my question to you is what are you doing to keep that from happening? And are you really such a sh**?

Thank you both for replying to my post.
God Bless
Ian

Well... I've never cheated and I've always been employed, so I can't be that bad.

I haven't been that easy to live with, though. Especially not the last couple of years.

Chris

Dream · 08-26-2008, 04:47 AM

I've overcome a fear of the dark and loathing of spiders. All that's left is to get used to the idea of being stuck by needles, smacked in forums, and the filling out of tax forms.

Only Special To God · 08-26-2008, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by China Cat Sunflower

Well... I've never cheated and I've always been employed, so I can't be that bad.

I haven't been that easy to live with, though. Especially not the last couple of years.

Chris

You are a good man Chris in regards to be monogamous (it's a shame more people are not like that). Working! That can be a definite good thing in any relationship (again it's a shame that more people are not like that). Good, good......So, why have you not been easy to live with Chris? And is she understanding or is she just tolerating you? Keep in mind that you have not been easy to live with the the past couple of years how long do you think it will be before all understanding and toleration are gone? It is never too late to fix it! Only you can fix it, Chris.

You still haven't answered my question brother, "What are you doing to change it and or over come it?"

God Bless
Ian

17th Angel · 08-26-2008, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Tao_Equus

Got the T-shirt

Hey may not be the house or the car.... But... At least you got something

Dream · 08-26-2008, 01:07 PM

I think I know what Chris is talking about. I don't see why she would stay with me, either; but that's always the question about women. Why do women stick around, anyway, and if there's hope for Chris maybe there's hope for me, too!

17th Angel · 08-26-2008, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Dream

I think I know what Chris is talking about. I don't see why she would stay with me, either;

Chris... I think you need to have a word with this guy, he claims to be seeing your missus!

Dream · 08-26-2008, 03:01 PM

Woa! Lets not be hasty! Everybody just calm down.

17th Angel · 08-26-2008, 03:52 PM

hehe

What? you said it

Only Special To God · 08-26-2008, 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex P

Chris... I think you need to have a word with this guy, he claims to be seeing your missus!

lol Alex! You are playing the role of a mischief maker!

China Cat Sunflower · 08-27-2008, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Only Special To God

You are a good man Chris in regards to be monogamous (it's a shame more people are not like that). Working! That can be a definite good thing in any relationship (again it's a shame that more people are not like that). Good, good......So, why have you not been easy to live with Chris? And is she understanding or is she just tolerating you? Keep in mind that you have not been easy to live with the the past couple of years how long do you think it will be before all understanding and toleration are gone? It is never too late to fix it! Only you can fix it, Chris.

You still haven't answered my question brother, "What are you doing to change it and or over come it?"

God Bless
Ian

I'm trying to be more attentive, less selfish, and hornier.

Chris

17th Angel · 08-27-2008, 12:09 AM

Hey just underlining the main details that is all Think of me as an highlighter