Why Believe????

[mcedgy]

Vajradhara: Thank you for all your posts. I’m always compelled to read each of your posts more than once.

I’ve read theoretical, philosophical, mathematical and theological Pascal arguments for years and agree that Pascal unintentionally refutes his own case but I don’t think it is readily recognizable with a cursory reading of the theory. Maybe I should have just quoted the theory and left well enough alone. I decided to make a feeble attempt at what may have been an over simplified paraphrase and explanation. mcedgy

[lunamoth]

Dear McEdgy, I quite enjoy reading your posts too. It is interesting to me that you consider yourself an Agnostic, and I am sorry if I seemed disrespectful of that choice in my last post. No disrespect intended.

Dear Vaj, your posts always stimulate thought, and remind me that a little knowedge, in my hands anyway, can be a dangerous thing! In a way I am glad that I did not know the refutations of Pascal's Wager when I made my own bet, of course I was unaware of Pascal's Wager itself at the time.

I came to a point in my life where deciding not to decide was very unsatisfactory. So, I decided to decide. This is the point of my blind faith. This is the thing I did that was illogical, but not without reason. The minister at my church calls it trust.

Because my upbringing, or those feelings I had as a child, or whatever, I was predisposed to the idea of there being Something More, that I refer to as God but think that any appelation is inadequate and incorrect. Anyway, this part of the bet was not an even bet for me to begin with!

Well, now that I've made my bet and been living with it for a number of years, I'm happy with the outcome. The thing that makes life so interesting is that there is no experimental control. Even if I wanted I could not repeat the experiment, choose the (an) other bet, and see what happens to compare because, well, the river is the same but the water has moved on. Maybe in another world of the multiverse I'm writing on this forum about how happy I am to be an Atheist!

Anyway, the journey is very interesting and I feel that I am fulfilling more of my potential by walking on a path, rather than drifting. The things about religion that are uplifting uplift me, the things that are comforting comfort me, the things that are challenging challenge me. I try not to have blind faith in religion like I have chosen to have faith in God. It is a struggle but you can't grow a rose without tilling the earth and pruning the stems. I try to set my sights on compassion and justice. Most days I just try to be thankful.

[mcedgy]

lunamoth: no offense taken!

[louis]

[QUOTE=samabudhi]What you've just described is the false ego. This is not the truth. You are not separate from your environment. You are a puppet and are bound by the circumstances which brought you into this world, the circumstances you will find yourself in, and the inevitable coming of death. Essentially, there is no free will and you do not exist. Once you have accepted this, the truth, then you can work at, paradoxically, free will.

You say you live in your head and that you are consciousness. Buddhists divide the self into 5 aggregates of which consciousness is one. The others are form, perception, volition, sensation. But these boundaries are once again merely designated for practical reasons. The truth is that you are inseparably one with everything, and the cause of your suffering is the false ego which deludes you that you are otherwise.

From Louis...
What "suffering" ???? I have never experienced anything
even close to "suffering" - unless you mean the temporary
discomfort when I read things like "inseparably one with
everything". If my ego exists at ALL, then how can it be
something "false" ? To be honest, I sometimes think my
ego is the only thing that IS real, however vain that might
sound to you. Yes, I do agree that my BODY is part of
the whole of reality, but I experience my MIND as
something distinctly SEPARATE from other human
minds and any COSMIC minds there might be.
And I VALUE that separateness - maybe it is just an
illusion, but it's MY CHOSEN ILLUSION !!!!
I do not know if my viewpoint closer to true than yours.
I've just been in the HABIT of thinking that way and
habits are hard to break.

[louis]

Originally Posted by Cloud Woman

Who wouldn't be comforted by the idea that there is no death? But who do you trust claiming to have the answers?

From Louis...
Would "no death" comfort me ? That depends ....
The idea of no PAIN or HURT would comfort me - if death
meant no more than going to sleep and never waking up,
I could simply dismiss it and get on with enjoying life.
What might happen AFTER I'm dead means nothing to me
because I won't be around to experience it.
( Even if I DO have a "soul" that survives , it's supposed to be a non-material thing, so how can it experience ANY
SENSATION - pleasant or unpleasant ? )
But nobody can guarantee a way to avoid pain and hurt -
Christians say even God's Son had to go through that.
And NOBODY has the answer to that - all churhes do is
advise you to how get by WITHOUT answers.

[lunamoth]

Hi All,

samabudhi said: "The truth is that you are inseparably one with everything, and the cause of your suffering is the false ego which deludes you that you are otherwise."

I missed this when I read your post the first time. Now, I like this better, or at least can grasp it a little better, than the emptiness doctrine. One question: If I am one with everything, and there is no me, but others in the everything still suffer (because they are still attached to the false self), then do I still suffer too? This is assuming I am able to let go of the illusion of "I."

Here are two sayings from Caigentan, The Wisdom of the Root Vegetable:

A vessel topples because it is too full.
A piggy bank is saved from being shattered for its emptiness.
So a true person prefers have-not to have.
Rather be incomplete than to be complete.

and

Ture emptiness is not empty.
Holding on to an image is not real, nor is abandoning it.
Sir, please let me know what to do?
While you may exist in this world, you can reach out beyond.
Indulging in desire is a pain, so is abstention.
My Friend, it is up to you to cultivate your own virtues.

These sayings first help me try to understand the value of emptiness, and second remind me that it is dealing with contradictions that you can get closer to that which is beyond yourself. Perhaps even the contradictions in monotheistic scripture can be handled in this way. One says this, the other says that, so what do you do? Do the best you can.

I guess this is my day for rambling...I'll try to get it out of my system and move on.

[louis]

[QUOTE=samabudhi]What you've just described is the false ego. This is not the truth.

From Louis...
First let me apologise for leaping to my own defense -
I took offense not at the content of your words but at
their tone. You seemed to be trying to PERSUADE me
that your way is right and my way is wrong - I think
that is contrary to the Rules of Conduct on this site.
Actually, I partly agree with what you said - I DO
suspect that my ego is only a temporary illusion which
will disappear when my body dies.
But I LIKE this illusion of my "self" and I wouldn't
change it if I could !!!
What puzzles me most is your reference to "suffering".
I don't know where you got that but it didn't come
from me - we "big ego" guys don't "suffer" - we're
too smug and self-satisfied !
Truce ?

[louis]

Here are two sayings from Caigentan, The Wisdom of the Root Vegetable:

A vessel topples because it is too full.
A piggy bank is saved from being shattered for its emptiness.
So a true person prefers have-not to have.
Rather be incomplete than to be complete.

and

Ture emptiness is not empty.
Holding on to an image is not real, nor is abandoning it.
Sir, please let me know what to do?
While you may exist in this world, you can reach out beyond.
Indulging in desire is a pain, so is abstention.
My Friend, it is up to you to cultivate your own virtues.

From Louis...
I missed this before - quite interesting.
Sort of like ... "Desire nothing and you will not be disappointed".... "Less pressure on someone who is
ONE of the best than on someone who THE best" .
I'm someone who would like to learn about religion
without actually participating in any of it .
That should be possible, shouldn't it ?
Does a Doctor have to CATCH a disease in order to
learn about it ?

[lunamoth]

Hi Louis,

Thank you for sharing your explorations here! We all learn from each other.

Louis: I'm someone who would like to learn about religion
without actually participating in any of it .
That should be possible, shouldn't it ?

lunamoth: I think so.

Louis: Does a Doctor have to CATCH a disease in order to
learn about it ?[/QUOTE]

lunamoth: Now that is an interesting question!! Considering the Divine Physician: The Messengers always do seem to suffer while they are here on earth.

cheers!

[lunamoth]

Hi again Louis,

I'm not happy with the quick answers I gave above--got them in while putting dinner on the table.

louis: Sort of like ... "Desire nothing and you will not be disappointed".... "Less pressure on someone who is
ONE of the best than on someone who THE best" .


me: You have grasped those sayings better than I. CaiGen Tan was written by a philosopher (Hong Ying Ming) in the Ming Dynasty era and combines ideas from Confucianism, Buddhism, and Daoism. They are popular now in Japanese business and society, according to my internet write-up.


louis: I'm someone who would like to learn about religion
without actually participating in any of it .
That should be possible, shouldn't it ?


me: Before I said I think so, but I would also say "up to a point." You can certainly learn about a religion, but I think you need to dive in and experience a religion to go very deep, and that takes a good degree of commitment. For many "mainstream" religions I think it is possible to investigate deeply, including attending worship services and study classes, without going so far as "signing up." But if your heart is not in it, so to speak, all this may just fall flat. When I wanted my heart to change, I turned to prayer.


louis: Does a Doctor have to CATCH a disease in order to
learn about it ?[/QUOTE]

me: I realize now that I addressed this question just thinking of my point of view, and not thinking about where you seem to be coming from. Apologies there. It is an interesting question, though. I tend to think of religion as the medicine, not the disease. But medicines are often abused.

Cheers

[louis]

- - - - please dont take this post the wrong way. I am merely curious to the reasons people believe what they do. I would never ever presume to judge or question anyone's belief system, but are you all simply going on "blind faith" - just seems strange to the likes of me - thats all.

From Louis...
When I first read your question, I thought you meant
"Why adhere to any traditional belief system ?"
Maybe your question is more like mine -
"Why BELIEVE at all ?" Why not stay with something
else - such as OBSERVE and EVALUATE ?
"Believing" involves making an EMOTIONAL COMMITMENT before obtaining enough evidence to make an INFORMED
JUDGEMENT. Why the rush to TRUST ideas when you KNOW there's no way to confirm their accuracy ?
Why not just WAIT AND SEE ???

[barefootgal9]

Originally Posted by louis

"Why BELIEVE at all ?" Why not stay with something
else - such as OBSERVE and EVALUATE ?
"Believing" involves making an EMOTIONAL COMMITMENT before obtaining enough evidence to make an INFORMED
JUDGEMENT. Why the rush to TRUST ideas when you KNOW there's no way to confirm their accuracy ?
Why not just WAIT AND SEE ???

Louis, I don't find Obseving, Evaluating, or making Informed Judgments at all at odds with making an emotional commitment.

There are some things which simply cannot be understood "from the outside in." For instance, you will never become a good swimmer if you never get into the water. We haven't become a swimmer, only someone well-read on the subject of swimming.

More closely akin to the question of Faith (which need not be "blind" at all, BTW) would be an analogy to love. Can one "know" what a committed love relationship "IS" if one is ever hanging back, keeping the back door open and ready to make your escape? Just looking at research on successful vs unsuccessful marriages indicates that one of the major factors in marital failure is that one or both partners makes an "iffy" commitment, keeping that back door ajar, and runs from the first tough challenge, rather than learning through it. (Alas, all the person has learned from the experience is to hang back more, and run sooner!) How can a partial emotional commitment, or even more to the point, an "intellectual assessment," lead one to understand the depth and closeness of a full emotional commitment?

I suggest it can't happen. You can read every book and study in existence on "love" -- you will not really comprehend it without experiencing it personally.

Faith is a "love relationship." The parameters of that love and the experiences of that relationship are new every day, a constant process of discovering and rediscovering the "other," and confirmations that "this is good." Faith (as opposed to "doctrine") is not a fully scripted definitive statement of reality. It is much more like what you were saying about an engineering project. One must have a positive expectation that a solution is viable and out there "somewhere" to be found. But the model you start with may have little actual resemblence to the device that finally does the job. You hunt, try a number of approaches, and test along the way. As you discover things that work (as in religion, one receives "confirmations") you gain in knowledge, trust and confidence. The "tweaking" never ends.

Faith is a journey towards an unknown goal, but with the positive expectation of ultimate arrival, it takes effort, assessment and reassessment, and you learn navigation along the way.

[Vajradhara]

Namaste louis,

thank you for the post..

Originally Posted by louis

For me, it's simple.
"I" live in my own head - I look out of my eyes, animate
my physical body, invent ideas and sometimes turn them
into physical pictures and object. I am my consciousness -
my "ego" - that which makes me unique and separate
from other egos. I am not a physical thing - maybe I'm
just an illusion that will disappear when my body dies.
Frankly, I don't know WHAT I am - I'm just HERE !

if this is true.. why insist that it be called "I"? by what modality are you able to determine this "I" that is "just here"?

[Vajradhara]

Namaste mcedgy,

thank you for the post and the kind words

i'm but a bug.. if you find anything of value in what i write, it's due to your own good karma ripening.

Originally Posted by mcedgy

Vajradhara: Thank you for all your posts. I’m always compelled to read each of your posts more than once.

I’ve read theoretical, philosophical, mathematical and theological Pascal arguments for years and agree that Pascal unintentionally refutes his own case but I don’t think it is readily recognizable with a cursory reading of the theory. Maybe I should have just quoted the theory and left well enough alone. I decided to make a feeble attempt at what may have been an over simplified paraphrase and explanation. mcedgy

[barefootgal9]

Originally Posted by Vajradhara

i'm but a bug..

Ah! but I thought you were a glinting diamond!

oops. wrong thread. that should have been in the "what am I?" thread.

tis after midnight and the bats are flying out of my belfry.

'night all.

bfg