How old do you think he is? We know how you act now, and how much you think you know. How much did you know at his age?
Oh I forgot, you are the one that would rip up your fruit tree if it wasn't providing fruit, you are not the one that would provide the water and nutrients and care to create fruit.
I remember you started a thread once because people were complaining about you. Perhaps it is time you revisited that?
There is a time for nurture and I follow your sentiment on that. But sometime a tree can be diseased to the point there is no saving it. I come here knowing that I only bring opinion. There are others that come here thinking they are the keepers of an infallible truth. In the ruff and tumble of a good debate that can appear to be lost, but it is never forgotten by me. I have some inkling of the scale of what I do not know. You can either choose to believe that or not as is your Wil.