The duality you are freed from has to do with the inclination to sin. It does NOT refer to being freed from your female counterpart. Without her you would die.Nice reply, but what is important is to understand.
"Jneyaḥ sa nitya-sannyāsī, yo na dveṣhṭi na kānkshati'
nirdvandvo hi mahā-bāho, sukham bandhāt pramucyate."
One who neither hates nor desires, know him to be always renounced. Free from all dualities, (the person) easily overcomes material bondage and is completely liberated, O Mighty-Armed (Arjuna).
I did not say that, Krishna said that. Be a 'nitya-sanyasi'.