Hmmm you don't categorize? Don't choose? Amazing... You blindly picked some woman out of a crowd and got married? You didn't pick out your college, or your cars?
You just threw a dart, to pick your house, your church?
Amazing! I tell ya, this dinosaur picked his church, his house, and all his cars... I even chose my wife.... I cleverly pcked a female, and while I have black, white, male, female, gay, Asian, friends....I picked every one of them....they are in the category of people I choose to be around....plenty of folks don't fit that category.... Not before I meet them, but once we start talking and interacting... I begin xhooing the length of time I want to be around them..