My opinion, obviously a response in a conversation... I think that is just it the patriarchy and racism/slavery have been held up by govts and religions for millenia....it is ingrained as a right to abuse and control those you have power over... Or you will lose that power. And that has put fear in the hearts of white men every time it is discussed. We live in fear when we are the minority they will treat us like we have treated them. Consider, is it true there are more black people in prison making license plates and washing machines for a few dollars a day TODAY in America than there ever were as slaves a hundred years ago? We call that progress and reform?