Bandit said:
I know someone who was getting into it for awhile but dropped out at some of the later initiations. he just got real uncomfortable with that. the other reason i was asking was from this old movie awhile back about the 1692 witches, of course hollywood & the history can be debated.
It's too bad that the particular denomination your friend was working with turned out to not be in tune with your friend's philosophy. There is a lot of diversity within Wicca because we do not have a central authority like Christian denominations do. Wiccans don't have a Grand High Witch, no Witch Pope, and no central holy scripture (no "Bible") that we all follow. So that means that the way one Wiccan group does things, and what one Wiccan group believes, is not necessarily what any of the other Wiccan groups do or believe.
There has also been a long debate within the Wiccan community about what constitutes a Wiccan, what the core beliefs and practices are. No matter what is presented there are always some excellent reasons brought out why they might not be valid because they would exclude some clearly Wiccan practitioners or groups. Personally, I feel the best universal statement of Wiccan belief is "The Principles of Wiccan Belief" which can be found on the web in a number of places including
http://www.religioustolerance.org/wic_stat1.htm
Some Wiccan groups do practice skyclad (nude), some groups might include some form of sexual activity or symbolism in some of their rituals, but they are definitely not universal (or even necessarily the norm) among Wiccan denominations or practitioners.
Bandit said:
when you speak of the divine, the promise made (as in initiation), i think there is a pack or vow made sometimes with that divine & that is what i have heard & read also. i also believe this promise can be rejected, thus no initiation. i am not a wiccan, but you might say i have been there alone & have recognized it.
During an initiation into an established denomination, yes there are usually promises (also called vows or pacts) made where you agree to abide by the rules of that group, and pledge loyalty and agree to maintain appropriate confidentiality in order to preserve the privacy of the members. Unfortunately even today there are people who have been fired, had their children taken away by state protective services, and even people physically assaulted and killed because of real or perceived religious differences. Many modern witches, Wiccans, and Pagans prefer to stay "in the closet" about their spiritual path in order to stay safe in their larger community.
Wiccans, witches, and Pagans are not the only ones though to make formal promises as part of their spiritual path. People who convert to Christianity promise to let Jesus into their hearts, or if they join a religious order or join the priesthood, they make vows or pacts to live their life for their particular spiritual path and religious community.
Initiations, when seen as the spiritual-experience kind and not the formal acceptance into an established group, are about a direct interaction with the Divine (however you perceive the Divine -- as a single deity, as multiple deities, etc.) and doesn't necessarily have any promise or vow or pact as part of it. You might promise the Divine to do something, but that is not necessarily a key part of a Divine experience.
Bandit said:
i think it was your website, where there were cookies made as part of a ritual (sweet food) & was reading about it elsewhere. in brief, what does the food represent?
The meaning of the food and drink symbolism in a religious ritual all depends on the particular mythology system you are working with. There is a huge amount of diversity among Wiccans, witches, and Pagans regarding which cultural systems they work with, which deities they work with, and therefore the symbolism of ritual actions will vary accordingly. There are some who work with Egyptian mythology, others who focus on Greek, Roman, Celtic, Hindu, or perhaps will draw from a variety of cultures.
Some myths describe the Earth and the bounty of the plant world as female (often as a Mother Goddess), while others see the Earth and/or the plant world as Male. The food in a ritual could represent the bounty of the Earth, or perhaps the results of hard work and the Divine's providence, or maybe a physical manifestation of the Divine body if your particular spiritual philosophy considers the Divine to be present in the physical world (which is known as "immanence" -- complementary to the idea that the Divine is in some other realm, known as "transcendence.")
The same goes with the drink -- there are lots of ways to interpret the symbolism, including the traditional Christian meaning that it is the blood of the Divine. It all depends on what particular myth system the practitioner or group is using.
There are actually quite a few books and articles that have been written about the similarities and differences between Christian and Pagan beliefs and practices. If you do a search for "Pagan and Christian beliefs" on places like Google.com or at book websites like Amazon you'll find some of them. Christianity has drawn from Pagan sources, and there is no doubt in my mind that Pagan sources sometimes draw from Christian ones too.