Okay Niranjan we are just going around in circles so lets go back to your original post and look at each verse of the Quran you posted in turn, then we will see where we get. Please don't reply with masses of links for attrocities committed by so called Muslims - I can't tell you why they misinterpret the Quran so badly I can only give you my beliefs on the verses you are quoting to refute the allegation that these awful things are instructed by the Quran.
Here are a few verses from the Quran that deals with terror.
1. (Koran 8:12) "Remember Thy Lord inspired the angels (with the message): "I am with you: give firmness to the believers, I will instill terror into the hearts of the unbelievers, Smite ye above their necks and smite all their finger tips of them."
Please look at the bold underlined words. Who is G-d speaking of? He is speaking of the Angels not of mankind, He is not instructing mankind to do this.
2. (Koran 2:216) "Warfare is ordained for you, though it is hateful unto you; but it may happen that you hate a thing which is good for you and it may happen that you love a thing which is bad for you. Allah knoweth, you knew not."
I cannot say this any more eloquently than Pickthall, one of the most accepted translators, scholars and a religious leader:
Pickthall while commenting on verse 2:216, references verse 2:251, and interprets the notion of fighting being not optional as Quran’s way of depicting fighting as a religious duty when fighting is done in defence of the oppressed and the weak.
[68] Maulana Muhammad Ali also uses the Quran to provide context for verse 2:216 and says that “It was an injunction to fight to end persecution and….save the houses of worship of every religion from being ruined”.
[69]
Pickthall goes on to say that “Nowhere does the Qur’an approve a spirit of revenge”
[70] and situates verse 2:194 in the context of a defensive war. Muhammad Ali explaining the same verse says retaliation is being allowed “within the limits of the original act of agression,” where forgiveness is not an option as “inaction…would be suicidal”
[71]. He, and others, have argued that the Quran clearly commands believers to prefer forgivness over retaliation where ever possible, quoting several Qura’anic verses inluding 42:37-43.”
Also remember that Muslims are only allowed to fight to defend themselves, they must not start a war, so the verses that refer to war are defensive for the Muslims. Plus bear in mind that Allah was speaking to the Muslims of the time here, if you read a few verses before and after this one you will see what Allah is setting out here. It does not however mean all Muslims must go o war.
3. (Koran 69:30-37) "It is not for any Prophet to have captives until he hath made slaughter in the land. You desire the lure of this world and Allah desires for you the hereafter and Allah is Mighty, Wise.. Now enjoy what you have won as lawful and good and keep your duty to Allah. Lo! Allah is forgiving, merciful."
As I explained before your reference here is completely incorrect, here ae verses 69:30-37
(It will be said): Take him and fetter him 69:30
And then expose him to hell-fire 69:31
And then insert him in a chain whereof the length is seventy cubits. 69:32
Lo! He used not to believe in Allah the Tremendous, 69:33
And urged not on the feeding of the wretched. 69:34
Therefor hath he no lover here this day, 69:35
Nor any food save filth 69:36
Which none but sinners eat. 69:37
As I stated before this all refers to actions against unbelievers in Hell and we cannot remove the verses from the Quran because we believe them to be the word of G-d and protected by Him. Who is to tell G-d He is wrong in his description of Hell? Has anyone been there and come back to tell of it?
To save you looking the verse you were trying to quote is here:
It is not fitting for a prophet that he should have prisoners of war until he hath thoroughly subdued the land. Ye look for the temporal goods of this world; but Allah looketh to the Hereafter: And Allah is Exalted in might, Wise. 8:67
This verse and the previous one is Allah correcting the prophet Mohammad (pbuh) for an error in judgement
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This verse goes back to the end of the Badr War, when there were prisoners, the Prophet is said to have made a wrong choice (there were 2 choices put forward, one was death and the other was ransom. The Prophet set them free with ransom and this verse is Allah admonishing him because at that time, the pagans were far more powerful than the Muslims and by releasing the prisoners (many of whom were tribal leaders) it allowed the tribes to regroup and continue attacking the Muslims. Allah is stating that prisoners should not be held until the land is subdued (ie safe for Muslims to live in). War is a part of Muslim history as it is a part of many religious histories, just a fact of life I am afraid.
4. (Koran 69:30-37) "(It will be said) Take him and fetter him and expose him to hell fire. And then insert him in a chain whereof the length is seventy cubits. Lo! he used not to believe in God the tremendous, and urged not on the feeding of the wretched. Therefore hath he no lover hear this day nor any food save filth which none but sinners eat."
You quoted the right verses here. See above for comments.
5. (Koran 5: 33-34) "The only reward of those who make war upon Allah and His messenger and strive after corruption in the land will be that they will be killed or crucified, or have their hands and feet and alternate sides cut off, or will be expelled out of the land. Such will be their degradation in the world, and in the Hereafter theirs will be an awful doom; Save those who repent before ye overpower them. For know that Allah is forgiving, merciful."
Okay let us not be timid about life here, war is war, it is horrific but it is war. Execution was usually beheading in that area of the world (oh yes it still is in some places but I would sure prefer it to being hung or stoned). Now look at other histories, I will take the British because that is my own nation, we amongst other nations have used beheading for thousands of years. So hardly an Islamic invention but an acccepted method of execution at the time. Crucifixtion, we all know the most famous story here which was rather a long time before Islam, so not an Islamic invention, just an accepted form of execution at the time. Cutting off a hand and foot on opposite sides - Forgive me if I am wrong but were the Chinese not doing this thousands of years ago? I certainly saw evidence of this when I lived in the far east. All horrific but all quite normal for the day and age. As for expelling from the land - can't really be called an attrocity can it when compared to the alternative.
So let us look at the two known times that the Prophet Mohammad used verses 5:33
The first was when Muslims were just starting in Medina. The people there were the Muslims, some Christians and 3 tribes of Jews (Bani Al-natheer, Bani Qaynuqaa, and Bani Quraytha). A number of Pagan tribes had decided to attack Medina and wipe out the Muslims. All the residents of Medina had signed a treaty of united defense. Salman Al-Farisi (pbuh), suggested that the Muslims should dig a trench along the open plains to disable the Pagan attack. The Jewsish tribes were stationed in the mountains on the North side of Medina. The Jews freely allowed the Pagans to enter Medina across the mountains and thus betrayed the Muslims and Christians. Allah only knows how but the Muslims and Christians won the battle. After the Pagans withdrew back to Mecca, our Prophet (pbuh) exiled the Jewish tribes from Medina in accordance with verse 5:33.
The second is seen here in this hadith:
Narrated Abu Qilaba: "Anas said, "Some people of 'Ukl or 'Uraina tribe came to Medina and its climate did not suit them. So the Prophet ordered them to go to the herd of (Milch) camels and to drink their milk. So they went as directed and after they became healthy, they killed the shepherd of the Prophet and drove away all the camels. The news reached the Prophet early in the morning and he sent (men) in their pursuit and they were captured and brought at noon. He then ordered to cut their hands and feet (and it was done), and their eyes were branded with heated pieces of iron, They were put in 'Al-Harra' and when they asked for water, no water was given to them." Abu Qilaba said, "Those people committed theft and murder, became infidels after embracing Islam and fought against Allah and His Apostle. (Sahih Bukhari, Ablutions (Wudu'), Volume 1, Book 4, Number 234)"
Both times verse 5:33 was used after betrayal of the Muslims. The Jewish tribes were merely exiled while the Pagans had killed the committed murder and theft, this was after they had gained the Muslims trust by embracing Islam. These are the only recorded times Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) applied thisverse to anyone. We may not like the desccriptions but do we believe these people would have been treated any better, at that time of history, in any other area of the world?
6. (Koran 22: 19-22) "These twain (the believers and the disbelievers) are two opponents who contend concerning their Lord. But as for those who disbelieve, garments of fire will be cut out for them, boiling fluid will be poured down their heads. Whereby that which is in their bellies, and their skins too, will be melted; And for them are hooked rods of iron. Whenever, in their anguish, they would go forth from thence they are driven back therein and (it is said unto them): Taste the doom of burning."
All the verses here refer to Hellfire. Check it out here, the article is entitled Hellfire, just do a find on the this page 22:19
The Religion of Islam - A Description of Hellfire (part 2 of 5): Its Appearance
If anyone interprets this to mean 'do it on earth' then they need a doctor and Islam itself is not at fault for someones twisted mind.
7. (Koran 76: 4) "Lo! We have prepared for disbelievers chains, yokes and a blazing fire."
Talking about Hell again. If you want to check read the next verse, it refers to those in heaven drinking Kafur (a type of wine) which you know is forbidden to us on earth.
8. So when the sacred months have passed, slay the idolaters, wherever you find them, and take them captive and besiege them and lie in wait for them in every ambush…. (Koran 9:5)."
Right this is the big one, this is often called 'The Sword Verse'. The loony extremists say this verse says kill all infidels, forever - utter rubbish it says no such thing when put into context. So best if you read people with more knowledge than my humble ramblings:
Kill the Infidels Surah 9:5
Sorry it takes a bit of reading but is the only way you will see how the verse fits into context and doesn't say the things the loonies want us to believe.
9."Let not the believers take the disbelievers for friends rather than believers. And whoever does this has no connection with Allah unless it is done to guard (Takeyya) yourselves against them, guarding carefully. And Allah cautions you against His retribution. And to Allah is the eventual coming." (Koran 3:27)."
This is verse 3:27
"Thou causest the night to gain on the day, and thou causest the day to gain on the night; Thou bringest the Living out of the dead, and Thou bringest the dead out of the Living; and Thou givest sustenance to whom Thou pleasest, without measure."
You meant verse 3:28 and let us quote it properly:
Let not the believers take disbelievers for their friends in preference to believers. Whoso doeth that hath no connection with Allah unless (it be) that ye but guard yourselves against them, taking (as it were) security. Allah biddeth you beware (only) of Himself. Unto Allah is the journeying.
Firstly, Muslim men can marry Christians and Jews and these women are not required to convert to Islam - don't think you can get much more friendly than that.

It is not the same for women because in Islam children follow the religion of the father, so he should be Muslim. The Quran also accepts the other Abrahamic faiths and does not suggest anywhere they convert to Islam.
So let us put this into context. First the historical context. A tribal system, the Muslims did not drink wine, fornicate and prayed 5 times a day. Other tribes in the area drank and fornicated, among other things, with a big smile on their faces. So what advise would you give to your children? Go play with the drunken fornicators in the next tribe or stay among your own kind where you are protected from these sins?
Now the modern context. I have a choice, I can go to meet my Muslim friends for coffee or don my boob tube and shorts and go meet my non Muslim friends in a bar? Guess which I will choose and guess which I am commanded by Allah to choose? Now if all my friends, Muslim and non-Muslim decide to meet in the cafe, then I am a happy bunny and mines a latte and a large slice of chocolate fudge cake.

This verse is purely about picking your friends carefully - and wise advise if you ask me.