The acceptance of all is mandatory for entrance into the Temple of St. John.
Of course it is an ideal and not to be forced.
Somebody got upset with me earlier in the year at a spiritual discussion group when I stated we can only love in freedom. "Oh no!" they said it is a commandment of Christ. "That will give excuses for everyone not to love" they protested. I think not, more likely folk will just be hypocritical.
We only love in freedom- it is an ideal. Better a real love, than an insincere attempt.
By the way, we can only love a portion of Humanity egoically, intimately- we cannot love all of Humanity that way.