I'll be speaking at length to this with my fifteen year olds and report back to you. My son's response in first grade when the older kids said Santa didn't exist was, "I can prove there is a Santa Claus, there is no way my dad would buy all those gifts, are you kiddin?" As reported by the teacher and verified by my son to us. Like I said, we all still believe. They were more than happy to stand downtown last December ringing the bell for the Salvation Army wearing a red and white hat. He was more than happy to dress up has Santa and hand out pinewood derby car kits to Cub Scouts, all those kids knew it was John, just as John knew it was me. They differentiate between a red suit and the spirit of giving....if we just give them a chance.