My experience is that the world is filled with all kinds... so I figured the army wouldn't be any different.
Greymare may not believe it, but I am not trying to paint her in a negative light. I have little idea what she's like as a person, but from the small clues I've picked up in this forum I have a positive impression of her.
However, a forum is about ideas and our ability to solidify them into words. And while I'd like to think of myself as a pacifist, I can be combative when faced with arguments based on tired clichés*, or poor logic instead of penetrating thought. We have to expect that our assumptions will be challenged and put to the test. Why else would we be here at IO?
*Especially when those clichés potentially perpetuate violence.