Yet friends do not exist without someone asking something of the other.
False, so false I would suggest you have no idea what love is. For you, it seems, relationships are a trade - you give me this, I'll give you that. This isn't love at all, this is something utterly disgusting. This is exactly as I differentiate between friend and acquaintance in fact: I want something out of the latter, they are convenient.
Because you said when the master is gone you can still learn from what is left in the house. You say Jesus is gone yet you could still read, think upon, and choose whether to follow.
So you agree that people are still slaves of Jesus? Then what are we disputing?
It seems Jesus addressed that, according to Matthew 5:9 Happy the peacemakers, because they will be called Sons of God. I agree with you, it is between Jesus and God whether or not he is a son of God.
This is my whole motive here: showing how the different religions are really one, how they all teach the same thing in essence - to create peace among them, even so they might learn from each other and further each other spiritually. It cannot be otherwise, for there is only one being, the cosmos is utterly unified but we have forgotten so we go on competing. We know we are something bigger than these puny bodies, but we go about becoming more in a wrong way.
Really. In the gospels I read that Jesus had problems with many people. By that, I mean he saw evil behavior in others and he declared it to them. You say Jesus was not awakened, but was petty, or jealous instead? As he says it is harder for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter into heaven, you think he was just jealous?
I say many of his behaviors are not at all that of an awakened man, he is too much split between extremes. The awakened man knows that all is one, yet Jesus - even on the cross in his last moments - has maintained a dualistic perspective. Honestly, I am torn on Jesus. I love him because I see truth in his words, but yet his actions are very opposed to what I know of the ultimate. Certainly I can see how people have taken his words and justified all sorts of atrocities, yet I can see in his words the devices to reach higher.
Your love sounds selfish. You love what your grandfather did. You like it when others give you gifts. How is that you being loving? What do you do, loving your grandfather? What did you do, to give to your grandfather? How do you give to your grandfather now, as you say he is dead?
My grandfather loved me, and I loved him back. He has given material things as a display of his love but you see this is exactly why I say it was love: he expected nothing in return. Real love does not wear thin, it does not fade away. I loved him while he was alive, and I will love him for as long as I live. This is real love, not some give and take arrangement that benefits both parties.
In fact, true love cannot even be taken away, many have the experience of loving someone they do not want to. They go on fighting it and yet it will not go away. Mind wants love to have a purpose, but love doesn't work through mind, only infatuation can - a false love that dies easily, a type of possessiveness. As with other mind pursuits, it is about gaining more and more, you make friends because they offer something, you enter relationships because there is something in it for you. If you pursue the same things through heart, it will be diametrically apposed. You will look for what you can do for the other to make their lives more pleasant. Ultimate love is not even targeted, it becomes a situation where you want to help all you encounter, you want to show everyone love whether they are friend or foe.
Through this, directly as a result, you will feel a great joy - you will not even require a thank you because your reward is already there. You aren't reaching out to them because of this reward though, else you are still selfish - you want to do good because it will make you feel good. No, the reward comes of its own accord, you simply love everyone completely and so you want to do something for them. It is an over-flowing of love, it either spills everywhere or you can give it to someone, but you cannot retain it - it is simply too much to keep inside.
This is love.