Sorry, i didnt make myself better understood, NickA. Its only very recently that I "got it". (that is an understanding of Christ). But now, to me, the cross is a reminder of something very important. And one day, if finances allow I shall buy a little cross and wear it around my neck to remind myself of His sacrifice for me and you and everyone else. Its got nothing to do with our own self importance, that is completely irrelevant to me, ( I amnot important in the greater scheme of things). But, i can be to others ( I hope). but I digress, I heard a preacher recently talk about people that we dont like, you know, criminals, etc, and people different from how we view ourselves, etc. I was sitting there listening to what he had to say but also critizising his manner , what he was wearing etc, (mybad). When he said, "well, Jesus died for these people as well". THAT is what struck me............That was my epiphany, i guess. Simple little statement, that I may have heard a thousand times before, but that day. WHAM. right in the back of the head. (LOL). So to me, the cross, is a reminder of that, my revelation, that i am indeed small but still he did that for me. Thats all I got tosay about that.........