the "I feel" thread is locked- but I'm not finished!

Francis king

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i come back, and see the thread is locked, which does not give me room to reply.

I resent the insinuation that Tao and I ganged up to attack him- we did not.

I called him a big whining girl and a hypocrite- but thats what he was doing, and being- and I stand by that- he called me stupid- he can hardly cry about being called a big girl when he feels its okay to call me stupid. That was my point all along. But no, somehow this makes me, what? I never sugested the lad change his name, nor did I suggest he should leave, or be banned. Read the thread again.

It isn't my fault if the lad cannot read or reply adequately in English.

The rest of his post? The part I wanted to reply to? He cut and pasted all my previous comments out of context in the final post. So yeah, I look like I'm belittling him repeatedly, and being snide, but no, that wasn't my intention. And yes, it looks like we've got him up against a dripping wall in a dark alley beating him with verbal cudgels, but we're not.

He might not be very good at english, but he's a dab hand with smoke and mirrors. However; I didn't make the dripping alleyway.

By all means, take the words out of context, or look at what I was saying as it is. I don't mind people judging me, but I'd be a damn sight happier if they got their facts right first.
I would much rather people raise concerns about other members, rather than try and duke it out with them.

This isn't about islamis4u being right and everyone else being wrong, as much as that thread developed into a flame war - which shouldn't be acceptable.

It was one of the first threads I looked at last night, and just read ugly, though having read around other threads I can easily see why Tao and Francis may have felt goaded.

Even still, while I appreciate I was on holiday, next time we can please just flag up offensive posts (not least promotional ones) so the other mods can deal with it, rather than just jumping in and allowing a situation to escalate, please? :)
All I can add is that I actually moderated myself quite severely. You may feel the need to apologise for what was said Brian but I am with Francis. He knew exactly what he was doing. But I will refrain from calling him an arrogant self-delusional little sh1t stirrer that doesn't like to be called for what he is. But only to remain within the rools.:)