It's not just about what an individual wants or experiences..
..it is also about the whole community.
Oh well said!!
Of course, unpopular, because the subjective narrative is the Holy Grail of contemporary culture, 'my truth' and all that ... it's all part of The Grand Illusion, the Kali Yuga.
I'm unaware of the Islamic term for it, in the Christian sense 'veil' has something to say, but more precise is the Hindu/Buddhist term 'maya' ('illusion' or 'magic').
Māyā is "constantly changing and thus is spiritually unreal." (quotes from the wiki page)
'Personal Religion' risks the danger of the deification of everything the Divine is not.
In the Advaita Vedanta Tradition,
māyā – appearance – is "the powerful force that creates the cosmic illusion that the phenomenal world is real" and therefore that my subjective narrative is real.
Māyā in this sense is the lack of knowledge (
avidyā) of the real Self,
Atman-Brahman.
Māyā is twofold – also an epithet for the goddess Lakshmi, the goddess of "wealth, prosperity and love". In Buddhism
māyā is one of twenty subsidiary unwholesome mental factors, responsible for deceit or concealment about the nature of things.. but also the name of Gautama Buddha's mother.
(The parallels with Mary are there if you look for them.)