Few pointers if I may, where would I look in the NT to find where it confirms the OT laws are no longer in effect?
Mt 5:38,39, "You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.'. But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also."
Mt. 5:43,44, "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven."
John 15:12-15, "This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one's life for his friends. Your are My friends if you do whatever I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made know to you."