Your Behaviour: Time to calm it down

Discussion in 'Code of Conduct' started by iBrian, Feb 17, 2009.

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  1. Postmaster

    Postmaster New Member

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    Laugh it off but I’m actually saying this out of altruism passing on what i've learnt for no real reason then to pass it on, there’s secrete societies that exist all over the world which base their lives on these philosophies. The majority of people have a hard time contemplating Darwin’s theory of evolution let alone a philosophy that involves it. Theres significant books (one specific book) out there that explain this in more detail one.. from a universal mating courtship process that involves many animals in the animal kingdom, to the female preselection switch again involving many animals, to generating the value (from social to emotional) that women seek and how to use it to gain courtship.
     
  2. greymare

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    we should start another thread on this instead of Hijacking this one
     
  3. citizenzen

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    I like it when threads meander.
     
  4. lunamoth

    lunamoth Episcopalian

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    aimlessly...
     
  5. citizenzen

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    Like a river flowing.
     
  6. lunamoth

    lunamoth Episcopalian

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    here and there...
     
  7. iBrian

    iBrian Peace, Love and Unity Staff Member

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    Actually, Postmaster has an interesting point deserving of its own thread - after all, surely it's well accepted that "famous" actors and musicians gain a lot of sexual attention not because of their looks, but because of their social status, which I think combines well with the idea of acceptance Postmaster raised.

    I should hope it's not too contestable a point to suggest that a person is considered much more attractive once they make their millions, and have extensive social recognition, than before becoming "famous"?

    I know a few people who might be considered "famous", and while they are often friendly and charming, it is the social status aspect that adds a completely different dimension to them.

    I guess luckily for me, I'm a cultural recluse, and really have little interest in social fads, so the concept of fame tends to go over my head a little. :)
     
  8. Postmaster

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    Oh yeah material wealth is deffo a benefit in sparking off love, more in females then males. 70% of what women look for in men is survival value and 70% of what men look for in women is replication value.... Its little bits like this that makes up the whole philosophy. Other things to know attraction isn't an option and in every relationship someone has a higher expectation..

    The aim is to spark off love and that is an art form but the more you try it and work on it the more consistent you become with it and this is more important than wealth actually if you can work women’s attraction switches it demonstrates higher value amongst other men and other women and the more rapport you have the more prized you are. To gain your experience or value you must learn rapport building this again is where the art form kicks in and a personal one which most men will always have the upper hand on women, gaming everyone contributes to this from your own direct family, older people and children (for different reasons to courtship) but it contributes to rapport when it comes to potential suitors and teaches to respect people who may have less value then you.

    Everytime you get knocked by a female or she cuts you off from gaming her you suffer the emotional consequences and you start again on another target, this process needs to be repeated continually until you master sufficient attraction which the mind aligns to with emotional turmoil. There are various metaphors used which shape your mentality towards attraction like the fishing bait hook release one and the Cat theory and alot of it includes psychology and understanding social dynamics.
     
  9. Postmaster

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    Also like I said before there is a universal 3 part courtship process found in nature attraction/comfort/seduction that you can consistently find yourself in as your value goes up from rapport and intelligence this art form doesn't discriminate for looks, age or wealth.

    There is a subsect of natrual magic called attraction magic that covers alot of interesting stuff.
     
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    wow, i didnt know i needed to go to college to understand love and relationships???And here i was just using the old "trial and error " method. lol
    Maybe i should have gone to college after all. lol
     
  11. Postmaster

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    hehehe well you would be suprised in this postmodernist society how many decent nice guys simply have bad luck with girls, who use there intellect for other constructive parts of society, making websites, medicine, they lose touch. A womens mind is hardwired for attraction towards the alpha males, however beta males can become dominate males by aquiring, men must mentality dominate women otherwise they wont attract.
     
  12. greymare

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    so?????????/ start another thread.
     
  13. Postmaster

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    I’m done... apologies to Brian for hijacking his thread.
     
  14. seattlegal

    seattlegal Why do cows say mu?

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    Ewww! Stinky ego-maniac Alpha males? Yuck!
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    What makes you think women are hardwired to be attracted to ego-maniacs? :confused:
     
  15. citizenzen

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    Probably the same reason guys are attracted to gurls that look like Barbie.

    It takes that extra effort to go beyond the surface.
     
  16. Postmaster

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    Alpha males can be egotistic but not all of them.. Alpha males tend to become less attractive to ladies as ladies mature but this is down to prefference also, human behaviour can be very unpredicatble.. Women say they want one thing, but they can respond to another, same with men :confused: Thats why love is an art.
     
  17. citizenzen

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    I'm actually quite humble. ;)
     
  18. iBrian

    iBrian Peace, Love and Unity Staff Member

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    Okay, closing thread as its gone very much off-topic. :)
     
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