We don't have to carry it all. So, we trust in God's knowing. Are there any more loving hands than his?
No, of course not. Almighty God is The Loving One .. The Ever-Wise .. The Most Merciful.
..and that is right .. we don't have to carry responsibility for other people's fate .. it is not in our hands.
Though we do have a responsibility to convey what we understand to be the truth. Not to hide it for personal gain.
Half of faith is our optimistic hope in God's Mercy, and the other half to fear his warnings.