I have a question for any metaphysics experts. I mentioned this to someone who is very knowledgeable some years back and he looked confused but nervous at the same time. If you meet someone and its eyes to eyes like a pulling energy towards that person but you intentionally stop it by looking away what does that mean? When I asked a somewhat expert years ago he said that was IT. After hearing that I proceeded to ask him what after that with another man after hearing his voice there was a feeling of flying down to him but yet again stopped it he looked confused and a bit scared and nervous. Anyone have a metaphyscial answer to these events?