I have not said there is only one way, I have said that choosing between the different ways limits your own unique path. It leads to emulation and fanaticism more than any real spiritual growth. It becomes an avenue for hate, and then those that disagree we will lash out at. You are perfectly correct though, life is about a conscious celebration with existence itself. All I try to point people towards is the realization that yes, the whole of existence is dancing with them the whole way too.