Other folks get disenchanted with religious orphanages from those good old days when morality was high that we are finding surrounded by child graves.
There are a ton of reasons folks are leaving the church, or organized religion...and most of the reason lays squarely at the feet of all organized religion.
The more things change, the more things stay the same.
The good, the bad, and the ugly have been with us for a long, long time.
I've never felt convinced that there ever were a real good ol' days of true morality.
When I was a teen in the 80s, people were saying "hohoho, these days are terrible, nobody knows what's right anymore, the 50s, the 40s, the really good old days. It all went to hell in the 60s"
In recent times people have waxed nostalgic about the 80s and the Reagan years and mumbling something about it all going to hell in the Clinton years or the Obama years (never under Bush though!)
It's a perennial thing, nostalgia.
But rarely more than partly true at best.
(cue the Billy Joel song)