NOW THAT IS NOT TO SAY THAT THE BIBLE OR QURAN COULD NOT BE USED AS AN ETHICAL SYSTEM. Some might say women giving their husband the leadership powers and the husband having the final say does work the best. There is nothing wrong with any of this but we cannot get past the fact here that God is not some simple object we can expain by calling Him/Her a man or a woman. God couldn't care less! God doesn't care if you put your trust in some wise man from the past named Jesus, he cares whether you live a good spiritual life under Him.