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Somewhat returning
What are difficult things that you encounter when trying to tell people they don’t have to struggle?
And what's your solution?
Struggle... With what exactly?
Communicating that you are not out there "just flapping in the breeze" all by yourself (or just with those who agree with you). That you need somehow to do something besides tell people that (insert title).
I feel, from just observation... The people that aren't going on about (insert title) and just living for the day and such, aren't struggling... They be having a wonderful time and a great life... The ones with the knowledge of (insert title) are stressing and struggling to get others to believe/support/whatever it is that they are selling...
You see that's just it, nobody is selling anything. Before I became a Christian, I used to think "why can't these people just stop telling me that (insert title)?" Now that I understand God's message to us, I realize that it doesn't matter what you think. I just need to be as non offensive as possible, but I have no intention of just doing status quo stuff when it comes to telling people the truth that (insert title). God has this thing about it.
You know, narrow gates and wide gates.
You see that's just it, nobody is selling anything. Before I became a Christian, I used to think "why can't these people just stop telling me that (insert title)?" Now that I understand God's message to us, I realize that it doesn't matter what you think. I just need to be as non offensive as possible, but I have no intention of just doing status quo stuff when it comes to telling people the truth that (insert title). God has this thing about it.
You know, narrow gates and wide gates.
Do you "struggle" then? To tell people what you know? Do you find it stressing that they just won't freaking hear you or give you a minute? Or that it is going right through one ear and out the other and they have no real understanding of how important it is?
A common experience?
Does the other person after worry about it?
Is it fair?
I used to be like that. I don't struggle with it as much anymore. I offer, but if they don't want to hear, I'm not going to push it. I might give them a tract and pray for them and go on. I may be disappointed that they don't with to listen, but if one has to force an audience, then you've lost them already. And I'll end up wasting time with them when I could be talking to someone who is willing to listen. "He who has ears to hear, let them hear."
well, I know we're in the xtian forum, but... I tell ppl they dont have to struggle... and I point them in the direction of what they need... usually services, rather than God, or Buddha, but... if u've done everything u can, and ur still struggling, then, hey... try Jesus... try buddha... it might just work!
How did you come to understand God's message in the first place? What gave you the spark to look into the matter?
But those who do not hear... You believe 100% deep down they are going to be punished/go to hell/not be with god/add something here..... And if you truly follow the ways of the bible with love mercy and forgivness... It must hurt.
Do you "struggle" then?
A common experience?
Does the other person after worry about it?
Is it fair?
After all we aren't the Holy Spirit, just the messangers.
ps- Please stop with the "x-tian", it's kind of rude. "X" is not my Lord and Savior.
What's wrong with X? Is there something in popular culture about X that I don't know about? I wasn't offended. What am I missing? I just thought it was just an abbreviation.
Same thing. ^What about X-mas?