I hope you see the vast difference between the pacifistic approach of those early Christian in spreading the gospel and the aggressive travesty these suicide bombers are being forced upon the innocent bystanders. The Christians didn't drag people with them in the lion's den. We may all have the answer (golden rule). I'm looking for those who don't have any answers, and providing one. The physician seek those that are sick, not well. If one already has a faith system and is satisfied, then I bid them good day. And yes, I do spend time getting to know them and their spiritual background before deciding to present the gospel. But I'm not pushy. If they don't wish to hear it, any kind of forced persuasion from me would be counterproductive.