Our spouse is our second Messiah

[path_of_one]

Birth, marriage and physical death are the 3 most important events in our life.

One of these things is not like the others... and that is what takes this statement from the obvious to the opinion.

When, we consume our marriage, it is not simply a physical union but the union of 2 spiritual beings. Love creates life and life creates lineage (descendants).

Unless one is infertile or doesn't want children.

The union we have with our spouse is profound and eternal.

This is all your belief and opinion.

Eternal commitment to each other and common purpose are very important for success.
It is crucial for a husband and wife to come to an agreement on what their 3 most important goals or priorities are as a couple and as a family.
If you ask a husband and his wife what is the most important to each one of them, you may find out that their are working in different directions and are building a castle on the sand.
The whole education system is to prepare children to have a job. Our focus should be first on how to create ideal families.

I think this is not a bad idea- in terms of having a family mission statement and discussing goals. A marriage is a bit like a business. However, I can say that I've been married a while to someone with different goals and interests from me, and thought difficult at times, it is also quite rewarding. The important thing is communication and agreeing to support each other despite the differences.

I think the education system should focus on helping people to be self-aware, critical thinking people. "Ideal" families are in the eye of the beholder, but self-awareness and critical thinking goes a long way toward positive relationships and responsible decision-making.

 

[soleil10]

Unless one is infertile or doesn't want children.

Regardless if a couple is not able to have children, they have consumed their union physically and spiritually

I think this is not a bad idea- in terms of having a family mission statement and discussing goals. A marriage is a bit like a business. However, I can say that I've been married a while to someone with different goals and interests from me, and thought difficult at times, it is also quite rewarding. The important thing is communication and agreeing to support each other despite the differences.

Yes we have different talents and gifts and activities. What I meant were the top 3 most important goals for our lives as a couple and as a family.