Hi
@otherbrother –
Just wanted to come in with a couple of comments on things said.
Do they explore spiritual self-healing techniques to do as they wait? Or do they mostly hope and wait? It seems to me as a lifelong churchgoer that the latter is more common than the former.
That rather depends on what 'spiritual self-healing techniques' you're talking about. There's a vast array of pseudo-spirituality out there, and my general rule-of-thumb is, if the work 'technique' appears, I walk away.
The ideology of what William James called the 'Mind-Cure Movement' – Christian Science, New Thought – grew out of 19th century Americana. The same ideas being later applied the 'Prosperity Gospel' teachings (basically, good people get rich), and then later the idea of 'technique' in spiritual practice, 'do this and that happens' to meditation and Yoga practice.
In my vocabulary there are no 'spiritual self-healing techniques'. That's not how the Spirit works. With regard to lower-case 's' spirit, then that's somewhere in and around one's mental-emotional faculties. There are exercises and practices towards well-being, and as such then the term technique applies, but otherwise, applied to spirituality as such, I think not.
I worked with a guy who was a serious Tai-Chi practitioner. He had a friend who was receiving chemo therapy for cancer, and the treatment would induce nausea, and knock him out for at least a day. His TC instructor gave him a breathing exercise to do before and after treatment, and the guy found himself able to return to the office, and function, the same day as morning chemo. The medicos were quite surprised.
Was this a secret spiritual practice? It can be seen as such, in context, but really, it's simply sound physical method – breathing – to achieve a certain resting state. It's not 'spiritual' in that sense at all, it's just a practice that has been kept alive in certain traditions, but generally ignored in the world. It can be a necessary preparation prior to spiritual practice, but that's about it.
On the other hand, if a person is serious about growing spiritually, wouldn’t he or she seek a deeper and fuller understanding of spirituality?
Yes, and the paths are there.
Speaking in Christian terms, I'd offer:
The practice of the inner life
sans pareil is prayer. This should be learned, and you are right in the sense we're taught to prayer as kids, but rarely instructed in prayer as grown-ups.
Lectio Divina.
The practice of the outer life, is the practice of virtue.
"We, body and spirit, have desires that are at odds with one another until Christ our Lord comes to help. He places the jewels of the virtues in their proper places — and in the place of sin, he builds the courts of his temple. He makes for the soul ornaments from its dark past to delight Wisdom as she reigns forever on her glorious throne. (
Psychomachia, Aurelius Prudentius Clemens (c348-413CE).
All the virtues are there, if minimally, in the Golden Rule, "Do unto others ... "
The Latin term 'virtue' comes from the Greek ἀρετή,
aretḗ, a concept in ancient Greek thought that refers to 'excellence' of any kind, by which was meant the person (or thing) reaching its fullest potential, or fulfilling its inherent function. It came to be applied to moral excellence, but only because in the Greek ideal, all life and all being is ordered towards the Good.
The Greek schools consistently identified four qualities as central to a life of moral excellence: prudence (wisdom), justice, temperance (self-control), and fortitude (courage). They are there in the Greek LXX canon of Hebrew scriptures The Wisdom of Solomon: "If anyone loves righteousness, her labours are virtues (
aretai); for she teaches self-control and prudence, justice and courage; nothing in life is more profitable for men than these" (Wisdom 8:7)
Ambrose of Milan (c340–397CE) saw the four classical virtues as "cardinal" (Lt:
cardo, 'hinge') from all other moral virtues depended. Added to these, the three transcendent/theological/spiritual virtues of 1 Corinthians 13:13: "So faith (πίστις,
pistis), hope (ἐλπίς,
elpis), and love (ἀγάπη,
agápē) abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love."
Augustine (354–430CE) argued that all the virtues ultimately grew out of the greatest theological virtue, love:
"... temperance is love giving itself entirely to that which is loved; fortitude is love readily bearing all things for the sake of the loved object; justice is love serving only the loved object, and therefore ruling rightly; prudence is love distinguishing with sagacity between what hinders it and what helps it. The object of this love is not anything, but only God, the chief good, the highest wisdom, the perfect harmony." (Augustine,
On the Morals of the Catholic Church, 15.25)
This practice then, this technique, is the living of 'the Christian life'. Love of God in prayer, love of neighbour in practice. If one's focus is God, then in everything one does, one is mindful of that, and it is a spiritual practice, a spiritual engagement, a spiritual life.
Does it show? No. Are there signs? No. Nor does such a soul seek them. The life is lived with no thought of reward. It is lived because it is the right way to live. A spiritual life gives its all and asks nothing in return.