I don't know what's going on, but this forum isn't letting me send messages via the normal route; my fingers are crossed that you receive this message.
Could you please give me your e-mail address again? I realize that neither of us visit this site very frequently anymore, so it probably makes more sense that we e-mail one another. (Mine is firstname.lastname@example.org, by the way.)
*the British shorthair/Egyptian Mau turns her head, then "calls" into the shadows. Several more mixes emerge, then they all move into Muslimwoman's (former) domain, splitting up the territory into individual territories, leaving the kitchen "neutral"*
I've been reading these forums quite a bit lately, been posting some, too. I've seen your posts and have been impressed by your clarity of thought. I have some "personal" questions for you, if you don't mind?
First (I saw this in your about me section), what is "Muslimah"?
And secondly, are you an American (or possibly British)? Or maybe American educated? I sincerely hope that question doesn't offend. I only ask because from what I've read, you "speak" like an American. If I'm totally off base, again, I deeply apologize.