Sam,
Essentially what I'm saying is: there is a struggle going on between intolerance and tolerance, between extremism and moderation, between narrow-mindedness and open-mindedness, between sectarianism and non-sectarianism. This struggle is going on in peoples minds as well as in the world.
I think you summed up the core of the problem. In fact, I think you summed up the core of today's numerous problems. I think that in a way, all our boundaries and points of anchor are blurred and there's a problem with deciding what's
right, what's
acceptable and what is
good. The fact that many different cultures live together - or communicate or have all sorts of interactions together is a huge problem : we've come to a place where political correctness and open-mindedness and moral relativism are so prevalent that we have no idea what the basis for common values are.
I'd say the problem is that we're struggling to create common grounds for new values and we're failing. And ethnocentrism (on all sides) is creating sectarianism, because the
other is constantly seen as a threat.
MW,
Universities are the bedrock of extremism
Isn't that appalling. and depressing. and horrendous. [insert other random pejorative word]
Now take what appears to be a small issue in the west, the "religious symbol" of wearing the hijab. When is the west going to understand that this is not just a religious symbol? A silly example, imagine you come from a very close family and in your culture 'nice' girls are tatooed on the forehead with the word "nice" and naughty girls are tatooed with the word "slut". You have a younger sister whose honour is paramount to the family and the school she goes to decides to remove the word nice on her forehead and replace it with the word slut. How would you feel? The issue isn't so much about the piece of cloth we cover our hair with, it is about our right to wear it, as our tatoo that states we are 'nice' girls. For some Muslim girls to be told to remove their hijab is the same as saying "walk in the street naked", it is an attack on her modesty and dignity, not on her religion.
Role change, you are now an arab, living in the middle east. You turn on your tv after dinner and the news says that France, England, wherever, have banned girls from wearing the hijab in school. What do you think? Do you see it as "we don't want religious issues in school" or do you see it as "we don't want Muslims in our school. You can stay if you behave like us."? Arabs are much more offended by this tye of issue than by war, to them the west is trying to make young Muslim girls walk in the street half naked. That may seem extreme to you or I but it is how they see it, we have to try to see the world through their eyes.
I don't agree. At all, in fact.
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I followed this issue closely in France (I don't really know how it went in the UK), and my mind just BLEW UP by all the ambient political correctness. France is one of the most truly secular countries in the world - that's something I'm proud of, even if in the countryside some sort of xenophobia exists.
There is no reason to walk on eggshells with the hijab. In France it is forbidden to have any clear, visible sign of religious affiliation of any sort, except in private schools. Christians aren't allowed to sport an obvious cross around their necks. Jews aren't allowed to wear kippas. Muslim girls aren't allowed to wear hijab.
Now I'm acutely aware of the fact that it IS a delicate issue and that it IS perceived as a means of demeaning and destroying Islam. But it is not so. ESPECIALLY not in France. The French have their fair share of racism, xenophobia, redneck bigoted catholicism, but forbidding the hijab (well. forbidding as I said ANY sign of religious affiliation) is totally fair and right.
As for the people who can't put up with it? Hey, Christians go to private Christian schools, Jews go to private Jewish schools (I'd say in both these cases it also encourages another form of sectarianism, so it's also a problem), and now, Muslims are beginning to go to their own, private schools, where a girl can wear a hijab and nobody says anything!
It's not like the State is coming into our homes and telling : "EeeeeEEEEEEeEEeevil! You have a cross! A hijab! A kippa! Die, die, die!"
This law was made because it is FRENCH mentality. France IS the country of the Enlightenment, the Revolution, of SECULARISM. If I'm not mistaken, France is the only country with Turkey that has the word "secularism" ( --> [FONT="]laïcité in French. I believe there is no proper equivalent in English of this word, the hallmark of France imo).
Banning the hijab was perceived as a direct assault on Islam. Yet another Western attack on our culture.
Well, f**k that. France is THE European country that has been standing alongside the Arabs since the 1960's (1967, the 6 days war.). I think the Muslim population in France is one of the highest in Europe. (not sure about that one though). Just switch on the mainstream French channels, and you'll see that Arabs and/or Muslims are NOT rejected by French society.
I didn't see any Jews riot because they couldn't wear kippas. Okay, granted, maybe most French Jews (I'm not partial to them, by the way
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really, really not) can afford to go to private schools whereas most French Muslims can't. That's true, and this should be taken into account. But hell! The girl who refuses to let go of her hijab when she goes into school (this school, who, by the way, is supposed to teach her among other things French values. secularism is a French value.) is stating that she refuses to abide by French standards.
I know very well how it is perceived in the Arab and Muslim world (heyyy, I live there after all), but I think the law banning the wearing of all objects/clothes/accessories that show your religious affiliation is totally legitimate.
MW, I know how *some* Muslims feel that not wearing the hijab is like being naked. I know how *sometimes* girls (Muslims girls) not wearing the hijab are seen as sluts. Well, the people who think that, they have no place in France. It's as simple, clear-cut as that. This is not xenophobia (that'd be kind of hard on my part now, wouldn't it?) or Muslims-hating (also hard) , or anything. It's just common sense.
The Muslims living in France (Europe? I honestly don't know how it is with other European countries. I thought that in the UK it wasn't a problem, right?) should see the world through the eyes of the French, not the other way 'round.
Okay, forget I ever said that. They ARE French. This is part of their culture. One has to decide which part of the original culture one wants to keep and which part one ones to let go.
If there is one thing I hate about France it's their slimy, gooey, icky political correctness.
Wow, I ranted a lot there. It's just an issue that means a lot to me, like you, MW, because I'm caught up between two radically different cultures, and at first, it really wasn't obvious to me that this law was legitimate. Yet, after thinking about it and discussing it with lots of people, I just realized that it was right. The only problem is that THIS particular issue is used by both Muslim extremists and by xenophobic French parties (Le Front National, for instance) : both of them encourage people to create a shell to completely ignore, fear and "protect"
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rolleyes
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themselves against the other that is a menace. Which brings us back to sectarianism. [/FONT]