You are just opposed to any legal security for them.That is just it Bob, I have no problem with you personally raising any children. I'm not personally agreived by same sex couples bringing kids to adulthood, at all.
On the contrary: the law must be made fair first, and then the animosity goes away. Waiting for the majority to grudgingly allow a minority equality of rights is useless; it has never worked that way, nor should it be expected to.However, that said...in order to get laws changed, one must see hearts changed first. It can't be the other way around, or else there is nothing but animosity, and begrudgement, towards the party the law change favors.