Undirected love is the only kind of love which can grow infinitely, for it is the very directing of it which makes it limited. This is hard for most to understand... Directing at yourself, at family, at friends, you do not see that it is a limitation of your love. Your necessity for privacy, you cannot see that it is a closing of your love, a killing of your love. You must allow love to penetrate you utterly, to such an extent that you are overflowing with love, now it doesn't matter where it spills, there is plenty left for those you currently cherish. It is a widening of your net, but it will look like escapism at first, you are detaching from all you have ties to. Yet, you realize those you thought you were leaving are included in this new being, you can even love them more because you simply have more love available. This, you somehow see as limiting?