Muslimwoman
Coexistence insha'Allah
If the man asks something which is not right the woman of course can say no....
The problem with that 17th is that it is the men (religious leaders, politicians, etc) that decide what can be questioned and they have a mirriad of answers as to why certain issues cannot be questioned (eg because we (the men) interpret the scriptures to say this, so women should accept it because we decided that is what G-d meant).
I was astonished recently to read that some women in the USA & UK are paying to have lessons in how to be a subserviant wife
Salaam