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On this 35th anniversary of the Roe v. Wade decision, I would like to share my views on the issue of abortion.

Life begins at the point of conception. No one can deny that after a human being is conceived it will develop into the very same being as those debating this issue. What astounds me is that those who favor abortion went through an identical development stage as the being they are condemning to death. Would these very same people agree that a similiar choice should have been made about their own existence? Abortion today is used primarily as a birth control of convenience because people are too self-centered to take precautions. They prefer their own pleasurable self-indulgence over the care and sanctity of the life they created. What ever happened to taking responsibility for one's actions in this country? Is it too much to ask a woman who has conceived to place the child into adoption? Nine months of discomfort is nothing compared to life in prison for voluntary manslaughter! Does the father of the child have a say in this? And what about the constitution of the United States? Are not all people conceived in this country deserving of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness? I believe abortion is a crime against humanity and should be outlawed. We need to overturn the Roe v. Wade decision and get back to cherishing life in this country. For a country that murders it's children cannot be far from self destruction.
 
Conception is an arbitrary point. An egg is live. So is a sperm. Would you like to burn down the house of every teenager who ever jacks off? Up until the point when a foetus is capable of survival outside the womb it is there at the mercy of the woman that carries it. It is her and her alone who has the right to decide whether or not it is allowed to feed off her. Abortion is rarely a decision that is arrived at lightly. Woman belittling evangelists cant see that tho, to them women are little better than slaves or donkeys. I suggest you start respecting that you have absolutely no right whatsoever to make the choices of what any woman should do with her body.

Incidentally this looks less like "your" opinion than some cut and paste from some christofascist.

Tao
 
It is her and her alone who has the right to decide whether or not it is allowed to feed off her.
Actually I'm not sure that's true? One certainly doesn't have to be a 'christosfascist' to see the holes in the argument.

In law it is a criminal offence if a guardian decides that a child, unable to fend for itself, is 'feeding off' the guardian, and decides it has not the right to feed and so disposes of it. If the child dies, then the guardian is held accountable.

In law, of course, there is a distinction between a child in the womb, and a child outside of it. 'Life', on the other hand, is not subject to such distinction ... so whether one disposes of a life in the womb, or outside of it, the same rule applies.

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In the ancient world, the solution was simple, they just threw the unwanted newborns away. There is that letter home from a soldier serving on Hadrian's Wall, "if it's a boy, keep it, if it's a girl, drown it ..."

Abortion is simply a procedure made safe by science and technology to throw the unwanted away.

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Religions view life as a gift, whereas modern culture treats it as a commodity, something that we can toss aside if it proves inconvenient ... religions are not against the rights of the mother, they are a voice championing the rights of the child.

I suggest you start respecting that you have absolutely no right whatsoever to make the choices of what any woman should do with her body.
I would suggest that any woman who willingly engages in intercourse, falls pregnant, and then aborts the child is not acting responsibly ... try gambling, and then asking for your money back when you lose ... and culture observes that by irresponsible actions, one forfeits one's rights ...

And if one's 'rights' over one's own body were an actuality, then we would have the right to determine what diseases we catch, what illnesses we suffer. As we don't, such 'rights' are a manmade construct.

What if the father wants the child? Has he no rights?

And the rights of the child? Has life not a right to life?

If a woman has rights, simply by the fact that she exists ... then so too does the child.

Just some views to counter what appears to be feminofascist ...

Thomas
 
Hi Thomas,

First I would like to make it entirely clear that I personaly would never choose abortion, if I had a say, unless there were qualified medical reasons for it either for mother or child. I would far rather face up to the emotional and financial consequences than to deny life.

Actually I'm not sure that's true? One certainly doesn't have to be a 'christosfascist' to see the holes in the argument.

In law it is a criminal offence if a guardian decides that a child, unable to fend for itself, is 'feeding off' the guardian, and decides it has not the right to feed and so disposes of it. If the child dies, then the guardian is held accountable.
You talk about a child not a partially developed foetus. They level of dependency is not comparable. A foetus is in many senses a parasite feeding from within a host body. A child is not and may be given into the care of anyone to assure survival. Drawing parallels is a red herring.

In the ancient world, the solution was simple, they just threw the unwanted newborns away. There is that letter home from a soldier serving on Hadrian's Wall, "if it's a boy, keep it, if it's a girl, drown it ..."
Nothing strictly ancient about that. It is still common practice in many parts of the world. For people who do not have the economic prosperity to enjoy the luxury of choice that we do they often see it as no choice at all. But necessity.

Abortion is simply a procedure made safe by science and technology to throw the unwanted away.
Better safe and regulated than underground and lethal to the mother too.

Religions view life as a gift, whereas modern culture treats it as a commodity, something that we can toss aside if it proves inconvenient ... religions are not against the rights of the mother, they are a voice championing the rights of the child.


I would suggest that any woman who willingly engages in intercourse, falls pregnant, and then aborts the child is not acting responsibly ... try gambling, and then asking for your money back when you lose ... and culture observes that by irresponsible actions, one forfeits one's rights ...

And if one's 'rights' over one's own body were an actuality, then we would have the right to determine what diseases we catch, what illnesses we suffer. As we don't, such 'rights' are a manmade construct.

What if the father wants the child? Has he no rights?

And the rights of the child? Has life not a right to life?

If a woman has rights, simply by the fact that she exists ... then so too does the child.



Thomas

Thomas, I am of course fully aware you are deeply into the Catholic faith so your ingrained and prejudiced patriarchal mindset will have a tough time seeing that an individual woman owns her own body. We have explored at some length on other threads exactly why it suits the Catholic Church that its flock breeds a lot, (something along the lines of the more indoctrinated slaves the merrier, or richer). The real force behind all anti-abortionist talk is men. Patriarchal organisations like your own and American nutcase evangelists that deny women equality and expect them to be good homekeepers and breeders of brats. This is nothing to do with the rights of the unborn. It stems without doubt from male ego and the animal urge to breed.

Few women choose abortion as a method of contraception. Most do it after much soul searching. Often it has a deep psychological impact that means we should be supportive and understanding of the terrible choice they were forced to make. But no. Male ego demands the women is a selfish whore. Absolute crap. As I said, a woman owns her own body and the choice is hers, not yours, mine or the unborns. This is fundamental human rights.

Tao
 
Few women choose abortion as a method of contraception. Most do it after much soul searching. Often it has a deep psychological impact that means we should be supportive and understanding of the terrible choice they were forced to make. But no. Male ego demands the women is a selfish whore. Absolute crap. As I said, a woman owns her own body and the choice is hers, not yours, mine or the unborns. This is fundamental human rights.

True that. :)

Abortion is a civil rights and human rights issue. At the political level, it does get confusing. Whose civil rights? Whose human rights? Mother or child? What about the father?

It seems to me that the father should have input, sure. Ideally, the father and mother are committed to each other and can make a decision together. That said, the one carrying the child is the woman. Yes, her body is the vessel that will grow the child, that will push it out into the world, that will physically nurture the child by breastfeeding her or him. The parents do share caretaking responsibilities, absolutely. And a man can physically breastfeed if push comes to shove. There is even speculation that a man could gestate a fetus and "give birth" by caesarian section. But I am digressing.

Abortion was criminalized in the United States in 1830. In addition, "abortion was not classified as a crime in Europe until the 19th century."* In the early 20th century, C. Gasquoine Hartley wrote: "Each woman must be free to make her own choice; no man may safely decide for her; she must give life gladly to be able to give it well."* To me, this is the essential point. As the Digable Planets say in La Femme Fetal, "Pro-lifers need to dig themselves, 'cause life don't stop after birth, and to a child born to the unprepared, it might even just get worse."**

And this is the thing, the real crux of the matter. Many--not all, but many--of the people advocating to ensure the birth of every conceived fetus, citing the sanctity of life, betray themselves by supporting militarism. If there is a war, sons and daughters are going to be sent away to kill and be killed. As long as their is undereducation, unemployment, and crime, sons and daughters will be struggling with each other on the streets, and some of them out of desperation will end up killing or being killed in a bid for survival and economic advancement. Until every one who argues for criminalization of abortion also advocates for peaceful resolution of global conflicts, advocates for non-violence as a daily practice, advocates for funding of education over prisons and militarism, the case they make is very, very weak--not only weak, but hypocritical.

In America especially, we are supposed to have liberty: liberty of each individual to choose to live life as they see fit. Individual self-determination necessarily means guaranteeing a woman's right to an abortion. After all, who is going to gestate, deliver, and care for the child? Is it society as a whole, or is it primarily the mother and father? I am all for society taking interest in the lives of children, yet I also recognize that this is too often not the reality that a mother faces. The interest society may take in her child is a utilitarian one. Why then should she be beholden to society's judgments that abortion is wrong, immoral, criminal even? Most mothers view their children as precious, sacred, gifts from goddess (or god, if you must). Very often those that do choose to abort struggle with the choice. I think that we would be hard pressed to prove that women who have had abortions as a whole are a callous group who want to murder unborn children without remorse.*** And even those who do perhaps come across to the militantly pro-life section as smarmy, smart-mouthed, too independent bitches--well, y'all have got to concede, Barbara Ehrenreich makes a damn good argument. ***!

Resources:

* Walker, Barbara G. The Woman's Encyclopedia of Myths and Secrets
** Digable Planets. Reachin' (A New Refutation of Time and Space)
*** Muscio, Inga. Cunt: A Declaration of Independence (2nd edition)
***! Ehrenreich, Barbara. "Their Dilemma and Mine," in The Worst Years of Our Lives
 
Hi Tao — not imputing anything to you, by the way.

One of the tragic miscomprehensions of Christianity, it sometimes seems to me, is that it is a religion that adheres to the Letter of the Law, and the Spirit of the Law, without compromise to either.

Forgiveness is absolutely fundamental to its doctrine, and yet this is largely ignored ... where those (and this an objective view not coloured by our discussions) who criticise Christianity accuse it of a dogmatism in a shallow and perjorative sense (the real meaning of the word is all but lost today) are equally if not more dogmatic in their reasoning with regard to the object of their criticism. You end up with extremism on both sides.

From a Christian perspective, man is the victim of his own sin, he suffers a nature corrupted by contingent circumstance ... and yet he is forgiven. No man, in the Christian book, is beyond salvation, and the requirement of that salvation is not beyond the possibility of a fallen nature.

If Christianity adhered to a morality of the absolute, that is a morality that will allow no fault or failure, then it would be a callous and brutal regime. And yet that is patently not the case. The Doctrine of Love mediates and ameliorates the absolute. It is fundamental to it — "God is Love".

Without love, Christianity is an empty shell.

The metaphysical dimension of love, of caritas, is the allowing of another to be, to delight in that existence, without trying to possess it in any sense.

Its activity is twofold:
1 — It demands the best (of self and other) — absolutely.
2 — It demands the forgiveness (of self and other) — absolutely.

As someone said, the most fundamental religion today is secularism — a secularism which refuses to accept, allow, or even recognise the freedom of the individual to pursue their own beliefs if that belief is seen as having any taint of religious sensibility. In so doing it demeans both self and other whilst claiming to uphold the right of both.

You are absolutely free and your freedom is a fundamental right, as long as you exercise that freedom according to what I deem acceptable behaviour.

You talk about a child not a partially developed foetus.
Because we hold to the absolute position. The foetus is a life. It might only be a foetus, but its potential is that of the person. For this reason the destruction of a foetus is no different, in principle, than the destruction of a person. How much less of a person is a foetus, a day short of delivery, than a baby, one day old.

Does a matter of minutes change everything so absolutely?

Only if life, human life, occurs only at the moment of delivery ... that something essentially not human becomes something essentially human by the passage through the uterus.

Is an autistic child not fully human? Is a Down Syndrome child, an impaired physicality and mentality (we cannot comment on a mode of spirituality), not worthy of the basic human right to life?

I fully agree that the person has certain rights with regard to their own existence, but those rights do not extend to extinguishing the rights of another that present no threat to their own existence, beyond an inconvenience.

Christianity observes the principle of the right of life to have a life — and so for us the foetus is as much a person as you or I.

A person in a persistent vegetative state is still a person, accorded the rights of a person, according to its nature, not according to its mode of activity, even if it does not conform to the classical philosophical definition of a person — 'an individual presence of a rational nature' (Boethius).

In the same way, a person is held to account by law (that is, by his or her fellows) according to this definition, even if he or she demonstrates a total lack of rational thought.

And the 'final solutions' of history are demonstrations of the horror that occurs when man determines the personhood of another according to what boils down to the relative and the contingent. The horror of Auschwitz is twofold: we are aghast at the suffering inflicted on another, and we are aghast at the actions of those who inflict the suffering, apparently without conscience, when he conforms himself to a contingent 'necessity'.

In the case of National Socialism, this is the 'rights of the individual' on a collective scale. The right to commit genocide in the name of lebensraum — freedom.

A foetus is in many senses a parasite feeding from within a host body.
I just don't accept that argument. At what point does a parasite become a person? Was not that personhood intrinsic to the nature of the parasite?

At what point do the old and inform, the sick and the damaged, the different, become a parasite feeding from within a host body?

The case is different, but the principle is exactly the same.

In our book, the foetus is a person in essence, a person by nature ... even if unrecognisable in its formative stage.

In the same way that a person who suffers a physical or mental impairment is, nevertheless, a person.

I am of course fully aware ... (of) ... your ingrained and prejudiced patriarchal mindset will have a tough time seeing that an individual woman owns her own body.
I will disagree with you here. We receive life, we are not self-causative, so we have a responsibility of care, but not ownership, not possession, that applies both to self and other, whether that self or other is inside or outside.

No man owns another, and by extension, no woman owns the life she carries within her ... it is a life, an-other life, not her life.

Eugenics and euthenasia is the expression of the ownership of the body on a sociological scale. The same rule applied collectively, rather than individually, as does the insistence on 'breeding programmes' in weaker countries in exchange for aid. It's still eugenics.

By extension of your argument, into the collective domain, one could say a given collective (any sociological unit you choose — friend, family, country, culture) has the right to deny life those outside the unit.

This is what we do in Africa and elsewhere ... aid is tied into the requirement of population control.

We have explored at some length on other threads exactly why it suits the Catholic Church that its flock breeds a lot, (something along the lines of the more indoctrinated slaves the merrier, or richer).
Oh, please be careful, my friend. It seems to me, on such terms, that in light of recent historical events to which I have alluded above, that if such a statement became the rhetoric of politicians, I as a Catholic I would think of emigrating, or the prospect of another holocaust.

This is nothing to do with the rights of the unborn. It stems without doubt from male ego and the animal urge to breed.
That's a purely political perspective. It would be the case if there was no sound philosophical or moral argument underpinnning the doctrine.

Marie Stopes, the hero of the English movement for birth control, was a monster. Her whole position on birth control was to limit the expansion of the lower classes, and to weed out the weak and impaired from the species. It was polite and discreet eugenics. She dispossessed and disowned her own son for falling in love with a girl who was ... short sighted. By so doing, she saw him as betraying everything she believed in.

This is what the argument boils down to: We stand by the right to life. The counter argument is the right to destroy life. The abortion debate is a symptom of those two views ... everything else is subsequent and politics.

As I said, a woman owns her own body and the choice is hers, not yours, mine or the unborns. This is fundamental human rights.
I don't think so, as you state it. And not solely for the sake of the unborn.

If life is a gift, then the carriage of life is a greater gift, and with it greater responsibility.

I agree the world is full of hypocrisy, but that in itself is a failure, and should not impair our critical thinking.

I don't think any woman, at any time, in any culture, has aborted a child in clear conscience. I think there is a traumatic cost, and this I suggest puts the question above sociopolitical debate re patriarchies.

And in my religion, abortion is a profound and serious matter, but not beyond forgiveness.

Personally, I rather that than a culture in which someone else's right to life doesn't count.

Thomas
 
I'm not a woman. I am pro feminist and pro choice. Roe v Wade is stare decisis.

"That's all I have to say about that." Forest Gump

Chris
 
For a country that murders it's children cannot be far from self destruction.

Not everyone was born to be a baby-making machine.

Is it too much to ask a woman who has conceived to place the child into adoption?

err....She needs to go to work and make money. She doesn't have time for child-birth.

Nine months of discomfort is nothing compared to life in prison for voluntary manslaughter!

Who said anything about going to jail? Did you make abortion illegal?

In the ancient world, the solution was simple, they just threw the unwanted newborns away.

Abortion is a way of avoiding that.:)

And the rights of the child? Has life not a right to life?

Ok, getting serious here.

An unborn child has a sense of dignity that is not equal to that of the mother. The mother has more emotional needs than an unborn child. It may sound ridiculous to say this, but when I am still inside my mother's body and have never seen the world, do you think I am so worried about being loved and staying alive? I don't think I would care.

I didn't have to worry about living then. Back then, I would have been just as happy being a dead person than alive. Now that I am a grown man, it would certainly be a violation of my personal dignity to be stabbed to death in the streets at night. Someone else is saying that he has more right to life than me. I have dreams and ambitions. The person who has stabbed me is saying he has more right to his dreams and ambitions than me. That just isn't fair. That's why it's murder. Killing someone is murder if it isn't fair.

It is not murder if it's not unfair. Killing me when I'm still inside my mother's womb isn't unfair. Inside my mother's body my life hasn't been set in motion yet. If you kill me now that I am a grown man and my life is already in motion, that would be murder.

Likewise the mother's life is more important than that of the baby. Her life is already in motion. She has dreams, ambitions, emotional needs and a sense of dignity. She has potential. The unborn baby does not have these things. Its life has not been set in motion. The unborn baby does not yet have potential. I do not believe it should be the physical aspects of life, but the emotional aspects, that dictate the morality of abortion.

True, in biological terms, the foetus is a life. But in emotional terms, the full human mind isn't there. The life isn't in the biological matter, the life is in the mind. The biological matter is just a medium for the mind. In that sense, as Tao says, the foetus could be thought of as a parasite.

Does a matter of minutes change everything so absolutely?

A few minutes is such a short time.
 
I think most of the time the abortion debate is presented far too black/white and in so dividing everyone into the "Pro-Life" Camp and the "Pro-Choice" Camp-- we miss the opportunity to actually help children.

I will start this off by reiterating what you all already know. I'm about as a liberal as they come. I believe men and women are equal. Etc.

That said, I believe in the sacredness of life. Most people who compare a fetus to a parasite have not seen the amazing 3D photos of fetuses and seen what babies do, even very early on. They respond to light and dark. They respond to music and motion. If they are multiples, they will touch one another and are aware of the other babies' presence. A fetus is not without a life to live, even though it may be a limited life.

To argue otherwise, I believe, is to go down the slippery slope of arguing that others who have "less dignity," "less ambition," and "fewer dreams" are also less human and should have less right to live. I have an uncle who is in his fifties now. He's been severely handicapped both mentally and physically since he was a young boy. He has no ambitions, no dreams (except to have my grandmother visit). Does he have less right to life than me, who dreams, works toward goals? The homeless man who stands by my building each morning, shivering in the cold, who seems unaware of everything around him and can't even take money and go buy food- does he have less right to life than me? Why are my goals, dreams, ambitions more sacred than those who are simpler than I?

Furthermore, we can't know what the fetus understands or feels. We can't know the fetus does not feel pain when s/he is killed. We can't know that it isn't emotionally harmful. I would not kill a pest such as a mouse in my own home in the way abortions are conducted. (I actually don't kill pests like mice, but then, I'm a softy that way...)

I am not pro-life. I am not pro-choice. I refuse to categorize myself into these polarities, neither of which would help children or women. Criminalizing abortion simply leads to women getting desperate and getting abortions that are unsafe, harming themselves and the child. Also, it punishes the woman without considering whatsoever the causes of unwanted pregnancy and decisions to abort. And it comes with all sorts of nasty problems, like whether the lives of children conceived due to rape or incest are less valuable and therefore legal (and what this means, by extension, for a woman's partner if she is desperate to get an abortion). At the same time, I am not pro-choice. I believe abortion is physically and emotionally cruel to the fetus, violates the sanctity of life, and is a very poor option to solve a temporary problem. Furthermore, the women who have had abortions that I know were devastated. They were not at all prepared for the feelings of violation, grief, and guilt they ended up feeling. Some have never fully recovered, decades later. Abortion is not pro-woman, no matter how much we say it is. A woman may feel pressured for various reasons to get an abortion, but for most it is a heart-wrenching decision and is not preferable. Furthermore, it comes with risks to the mother and repeated abortions can cause a number of health problems.

Why do women get abortions? This is the real question. To solve the problem this is where we need to go. Not criminal action. Not ignoring it. But asking ourselves why women are doing this to themselves. Because they are harming themselves as well as the fetus. Recent studies have shown that the typical woman getting an abortion is not the teenager who "made a mistake" or "slept around." It is most often women who already have at least one child and are lower income. They sacrifice their unborn baby because they realize they can't take care of more than the one(s) they already have. Often, it is a woman who is working and trying to make a better life for the children she already has. Many of these women are not sleeping around, but rather in monogamous relationships. They are not irresponsible women. They are women who are torn in two- by the unborn child they carry and by the kids they already have. Their decision is little different than the women in many third world nations who commit infanticide for the same reasons- too little resources, too many children. (These women, also, when studied by a sympathetic ethnographer, also feel awful about it, no matter how many times they've had to do it.)

Women get abortions because our society doesn't have support mechanisms for them. It's easy to say "it's only 9 months" if you aren't a woman who has to work. About 25% of our nation has no health insurance, so there is an additional cost. Even if you have good health insurance, a hospital birth often costs a large deductible (mine is $1000, for example). Then, a woman must hope she has an easy, uncomplicated birth so she can go right back to work after the baby is born. If she has a C-section, which happens about 30% of the time in this country, it could be two months that she is out of work. If you have never worked low-paying jobs and been part of the working poor, it is hard to imagine how scary all this is. I grew up working poor. We sometimes had to collect and roll change to buy food. Now just imagine becoming pregnant as say, a housekeeper, and now you wonder: what will you do when you get big? When you have morning sickness? What happens if everything doesn't go uncomplicated? How will you pay for the doctor? What if you lose your job?

And before you say... just put them on welfare, consider what it does to a person's dignity. Some people don't want handouts. They are working. They are striving for something better. The question is: how can we help them become a success? How can we ensure they feel *capable* of having the child?

And then, we have to fix our adoption system. It's easy enough to say all these unwanted kids can be adopted. Anybody tried to adopt in this nation? My husband and I plan to adopt at some point, and I've looked into it. It's a mess. It's extremely expensive, even for middle and upper middle class families- it's hard to afford it. Children are often stuck in "the system" so long that by the time they can be placed, they are past toddlerhood and have developmental and emotional delays. They suffer while in the adoption and foster care system- often from sexual and physical abuse. I had a friend who wasn't adopted until she was about 13 and she told me she wished she had been aborted. Her pain from the abuse was so great that she felt she could never overcome it.

No, I am not pro-life. It isn't so simple. And I'm not pro-choice. That acts like these women are fine. Like their grief and pain don't even matter. That they are happy they made that sad choice. What am I? Pro-better-systems? Pro-an-economy-that-supports-moms-and-dads?

(And it isn't as simple as giving everyone birth control. Not sure if we want to get into that tangent...)

And for the record...

I'm consistent, if I'm anything. I'm anti-war. I'm anti-capital punishment. I'm anti-euthanasia but I'm also anti-keeping-folks-alive-on-machines.

My own body does not belong to me. It belongs to God and to Nature. Life is not mine to take.

Signed...
One liberal woman
 
A "fetus", in the second or third trimester, with the capacity to sense, to feel, and within its limited capacities to act, is different from an "embryo" which does not and cannot do any of those things.
 
Bob, do you have any studies that have effectively proven that embryos cannot feel pain? I'm not asking to challenge, but rather because I'm actually interested.
 
just a few pointers and its only my opinion.....

regardless of alll the studies in the world, its up to your own opinion as to when to call a life, a life. for some, its from their first breath, for me its conception. Im sure that those that have abortions dont just do it for the hell of it. Maybe the true toll is only realized later in life,maybe not.

I will say this though, i do feel sorry for men and some women (sorry but im going to offend again) that do not feel that life inside them. it is the most marvellous thing you can ever experience. Im sorry, guys but you do really miss out. and another thing, you have never met a person capable of such compassion but also such protectiveness as a mother. go on , have a look at your own mothers. Your mother would die and kill for you. thats how we are made. thats what happens when you become a mother. thats how we roll. I have a sticker on my car.....She Devil. its true.

i know this has little to do with abortion , but I think you understand how I feel about this subject. look, if you dont want em, send em over here, Ill look after em.
 
Hi thomas,
Hi Tao — not imputing anything to you, by the way.

One of the tragic miscomprehensions of Christianity, it sometimes seems to me, is that it is a religion that adheres to the Letter of the Law, and the Spirit of the Law, without compromise to either.
I would like to apologise for the aggressiveness of my first reply and would like to explain it. As I thought in my first post this thread was started by a site trawling cut and paster. The same cut and paste has been posted on several sites and comes from an evangelical hate monger. I got back to this site shortly after and was a bit more heated than I should have been. That said the essence of what I was saying I stand by.

One of the tragic miscomprehensions of Christianity, it sometimes seems to me, is that it is a religion that adheres to the Letter of the Law, and the Spirit of the Law, without compromise to either.

Forgiveness is absolutely fundamental to its doctrine, and yet this is largely ignored ... where those (and this an objective view not coloured by our discussions) who criticise Christianity accuse it of a dogmatism in a shallow and perjorative sense (the real meaning of the word is all but lost today) are equally if not more dogmatic in their reasoning with regard to the object of their criticism. You end up with extremism on both sides.

Forgiveness is absolutely fundamental!! Sorry Thomas but tell that to the 30,000 slave women who ended up in the catholic run Magdalene laundries. These 'fallen' girls and women, some rape victims, prostitutes, the mentally weak and therefore sexually naive, suffered terrible abuse at the hands of the Catholic Church. Their children were torn from them and they were locked into a life off beating, inhuman punishment and lifelong slavery. So if I take your rose coloured interpretation with a pinch of salt i hope you understand why. And no this is not ancient history, the last one closed its doors in 1996. And further that just counts the Magdalene Laundries, similar abuse occurred at 100's of Nazareth House orphanages throughout the UK, Eire and beyond. There the only 'crime' was to have been orphaned or abandoned. So the Catholic Establishment has no long tradition of forgiveness. Quite the reverse, its tradition is of abusing and enslaving the vulnerable victims of a cruel heartless patriarchal mindset.

Do not think me blind to your own beliefs which I trust to be exactly as you state them here. I have no issue at all with what you believe. It is the fact of what happens out there in the real world that really counts tho, not your or anybody else's utopian ideals.

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Tao
 
Path of One,

If I were capable of making a calm reflective post that truly imparts the essence of my own views on abortion I might have written a very similar one to yours. I agree that there is way too much polarity in this debate but posit that it is not pro-choicers that force it to be so. Here in the UK there is no issue with health insurance but all the other financial implications of course are exactly the same. The undeniable truth is that this debate is pimped out by patriarchal bible thumping evangelical hate-mongers of the American bible belt and almost nowhere else. It should be that we could afford to ignore their rancid ravings but certain scrupleless politicians court their votes and give their ambitions weight. The fact that Huckabee (cant be bothered to spell check that) is getting anywhere with his campaign shows that there is a clear threat to freedom of choice from these religious retards. i do not think Americans who care about freedom can afford to sit on a fence trying to please everybody. You have a battle on your hands, unless you want to end up like being an evangelical version of Saudi Arabia.

Tao
 
Your mother would die and kill for you. thats how we are made. thats what happens when you become a mother. thats how we roll. I have a sticker on my car.....She Devil. its true.

Go Mum!!! Mum you're the best!!!:D Tip Top's the One....Good on you Mum.
 
Kindest Regards, all!

And we thought the threads on homosexuality tread on thin ice?

No matter what stance a person takes in this, they will be met rabidly by someone with an opposing view.

As much and as hard as I try to stay academic in my discussions, and have for years, this is one that immediately provokes emotion...intense emotion at that. And there is no way in hell to have a reasonable discussion while in the throes of intense emotion. It ain't gonna happen.

Something else I see, so frequently it scares the hell out of me, is how uneducated people are on the subject. Either a fetus is a living soul at conception, or not until after birth, with no possible middle ground whatsoever. Which is...to hell with tact for the moment...stupid.

This is another one of those subjects I already knew damn well and good, just like everyone else, up until I did a little research on Rowe v Wade for a Medical Law and Ethics class. And since Rowe is based in English Common Law, I am surprised to see how the misconceptions (pardon the pun) and deliberate ignorance still manages to rule the day even in the British Isles.

Anybody here familiar at all with the legal term "quickening?"

Rowe only allowed for abortion up until the time that a fetus became quickened. It is all the superfluous BS added on by lawyers and civil liberties groups afterwords that makes anybody think a fetus is not alive until birth.

I'm sorry but, I am not convinced that a fetus aborted *after* it is quickened does not feel pain. Dismemberment of a third trimester baby to abort when even younger fetuses are saved as *preemies* is murder of a living human being.

Of course, that's just my opinion. That opinion and a buck might still buy a cheap cup of coffee anyplace but starbucks. I don't have to personally make that heartwrenching decision. My heart goes out to anybody faced with such an awesome decision. It is the kind of decision that will haunt a person for life, always wondering what might have been, if only...

I cannot allow myself to pass my own personal judgment on someone else for the decision to abort. What I *can* do is vigorously oppose using aborted human flesh as a commodity, for sale to the highest bidder. *Get yer stem cells here, fresh stem cells, get 'em while they're hot!* There is something unnaturally counterproductive in killing the young to prolong the old.
 
Ill tell ya one thing for free, I knew the morning after each conception that I was pregnant. I cannot say for sure just that I knew. Regardless of my situation at the time. I WAS READY TO PROTECT THAT LIFE. That is me, maybe others are different. I cannot say for sure. my boys were not concieved in the ideal circumstances but a life is a life. My girls were taken from me, may be as punishment, I dont know.THE LIFE YOU CREATE IS MAGIC.
 
Ill tell ya one thing for free, I knew the morning after each conception that I was pregnant... THE LIFE YOU CREATE IS MAGIC.
You are not the first I have heard say something like this, Grey.

What I was getting at is how people who really haven't a clue about the issues actually involved will take sides and line up to beat each other about the head with *Rowe v Wade* without knowing anything about the facts involved.

This particular law has become a billy club for both sides, neither one of which is willing to set the stick down long enough to take a good hard look at it.

I realize there are times and circumstances where aborting might be the best option available. I don't think those circumstances are or should be the norm. Regret is a lifelong companion one can't divorce, and drugs and alcohol don't make it go away either.
 
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