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Is it wrong to find women attractive? :/ Please give examples via bible scripture thanks.
Hell no it' not wrong ! That is why we have stereoscopic vision, and stereo hearing.Is it wrong to find women attractive? :/ Please give examples via bible scripture thanks.
Hell no it' not wrong ! That is why we have stereoscopic vision, and stereo hearing.
It's what is in the mind, that makes it right or wrong.
Some of the forefathers in the OT had quite an issue with the ladies. Solomon and David for example.. Heck the Song of Solomon is pretty visual in some places where he was admiring those certain places on his pretty shulamite bride.
No, but you love a heck of a love story...porn yuck I wasnt even thinking of that...
porn yuck I wasnt even thinking of that...
I think there is a fine balance. Yes, look upon the beauty of a woman and appreciate how wonderful God has made her. That attraction is God given, intended to bring two people together. But I think also that we need to be careful that we don't turn that attraction to lust too soon, else we can short circuit the relationship. Infatuation is but for a moment, but love lasts longer (following I Cor 13).
Is it wrong?
Trying, failing and trying again is bearing the weight of glory. Imagine you are carrying the ark of the covenant. It is heavy, and now imagine that the person who was helping you carry your end drops out on you, doubling the weight! That weight is the struggle we face so that glory is revealed in our midst. It is all of our animal urges, weaknesses, and mental treachery which constantly pulls us down, and God knows how much weight each bearer carries. Sometimes the one who should be helping us to shoulder the burden (fellow believers) drops out, and that means we are left carrying extra and stumbling more frequently. Those are the times when we carry double the weight and times when we fail, but that is not to our shame but the work of God.
Psalm 106
- Praise ye Jehovah. Oh give thanks unto Jehovah; for he is good; For his lovingkindness endureth forever.
- who can utter the mighty acts of Jehovah, Or show forth all his praise?
- Blessed are they that keep justice, And he that doeth righteousness at all times.
- Remember me, O Jehovah, with the favor that thou bearest unto thy people; Oh visit me with thy salvation,
- That I may see the prosperity of thy chosen, That I may rejoice in the gladness of thy nation, That I may glory with thine inheritance.
- We have sinned with our fathers, We have committed iniquity, we have done wickedly.
Actually that is pretty accurate on all accounts.Yes. I was with someone for 10 years and he was obsessed with it...and not just your run of the mill stuff... it got to where the bizarre was his obsession. I think its a sickness for some I know it is for him... I feel victimized seriously for some of what I went through in that 10 years.. Sometimes I think I should go get some therapy lol. I think the worst of it is that I couldnt help but think he was comparing me to those girls and I was found wanting.. which did a huge head trip on me. I think porn is a soul sucker to be honest with you.
If anyone should be able to be 'Good' it is me, but I'm not. The only thing I can do is be aware that I am a creature, stay busy doing good things, keep improving myself, focus on the positive, own up to my mistakes, etc. You know, just do the things that make sense to do. Its generally a bad idea for me to stand all by myself next to a big pile of money that isn't mine, holding a big canvas bag all the while wearing an invisibility cloak. I might start to think about stealing some of it. Actually, the idea does have some appeal.Alex said:Nice thoughts and scripture there too... Ain't easy being good huh?
I'm not sure that's the issue.What is wrong according to Jesus' teachings is then allowing oneself to imagine having sex with that person- that is, committing adultery in one's heart. Jesus recognized what modern psychology also recognizes- imagination is one step away from reality. The more we imagine something as possible, the closer we are to acting on it.
I think this varies with perception. ie degrees. some will read those racy scriptures and blush, not wanting to discuss what is written. Others have issues with romance novels, comparing their hubbies to the heroes looking for the gallant knight in shining armor to sweep them off their feet. Others label various degrees as you said with porn.I think porn is a soul sucker to be honest with you.