I can understand, if me and 750,000 others were forced from our homes, to live next to a concrete wall, I would probably plot for decades to return home.
This is what I just
can't understand. About 500,000 Jews were forced from their homes in the other direction, and while some of them may still have nostalgia for the old Iraq, they haven't been plotting for decades to return; 2 million Germans were forced from their homes just 3 years earlier, and that's all been forgotten; about 10 million Chinese were forced from their homes right at the same time as the 1948 war, and while they did plot for decades to return, that's all been given up, and really it didn't take long for the supposed plan to retake the mainland to become just a theoretical and not a genuine aspiration.
The Palestinians act like no other nation in the history of the world had ever lost territory in a war before.
A couple of months ago Hamas were making slight noises toward a two state solution.
I missed the "slight noises", could you clarify what you are referring to? In any case, it is way way too late for anything short of an unequivocal commitment.
Until they are prepared to bring Hamas into the discussions there can be no workable peace plan. The UK learnt that the hard way with the IRA.
It only became useful to talk to the IRA once the Irish Catholic community had come to accept (most of them, anyhow) that a British withdrawal and unification of Ulster with the Republic was never ever going to happen. There would have been no point in trying to talk to the IRA in, say, 1980.
Similarly, there never was any point in talking to Arafat (I thought the recent "commemoration" of him was very fitting, in a black-humor sort of way: Hamas said they started shooting only because Fatah shot first, but Fatah says the Hamas officers started shooting because children were throwing rocks at them, while the adults were calling them bad names, like "Shi'ite").
they've grown from less than a million to 4 million
There is a special branch of the UN entirely devoted to giving "welfare" to Palestinian refugees (separate from the administration that deals with all other refugees); of course the money is just enough to keep them on the edge of starvation, but it increases if they have more kids. This creates the usual perverse incentive to engage in no productive economics, but instead have a lot of children that other people are expected to support.